To tiara or not to tiara that is the question!

posted 3 years ago in Accessories
Post # 3
7198 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

The answer is always “no”.

Post # 4
1838 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

nope, not a fan

Post # 5
565 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Psst, it’s “tiara.”

Post # 7
2565 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I much prefer a headband or hair comb over a tiara every single time.  I know some women like them, but I have never seen a bride with a tiara that I thought looked good (unless it was an actual diamond one!)  I know hair combs and headbands are all made of the same material, but they look so much nicer to me but when it is made into a tiara they look so cheap.

Post # 8
1881 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I just can’t with tiaras. They are very 80s/90s to me and not very modern. I also think they very much scream “princess’ in a negative way. Go with a ebautiful headband or hairpiece.

Post # 9
7654 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

When I think tiara, I think prom, and since you are probably a very classy, grownup woman I would say going with a very blingy headpiece (like a headband) or comb would look beautiful.

Post # 10
2189 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Not a fan. They look really 90s to me. I think there are a ton of beautiful sparkly alternatives out there.

Post # 11
2897 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

i wore a tiara for my prom and i went thru the whole princessy phase when i was a kid/teen, so tried to stay away from anything that could be interpreted as princessy for my wedding. 

like others, i think a blingy headband is prettier, but i don’t think there’s anything wrong with wearing a tiara if it’s what you want.

Post # 12
3442 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Don’t like them.

They seem pretentious & self-important.

Plus, I think a beautiful hair comb, hair flower, or other accessory would look more classy and timeless.


Post # 13
2696 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Nope, can’t stand them.

Post # 14
1247 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I love certain head pieces but Unless ots your quincenera, skip the tiara.

Post # 15
3222 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Unless you’re wearing a huge immaculate ballgown and you have a diamond or other high quality tiara, and you’ll be wearing it to you very formal wedding, then sure – tiara away.

If you’re having a run of the mill wedding, then no tiara. It’ll look like you’re trying to be a 90s princess.

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