- 3 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
My “unofficial” (I say that because he has not proposed, but we know he is going too…I know, lol) FI and I are now in the discussion of do we wait to get married (Sept 14) VS. June 14. The reason this has come up is because we are currently in a long distance relationship. We live about 3 hours away from each other and with the distance, the only time we have to spend would be a few days on the weekend. This arrangement is okay, but not ideal. Since I will be the one moving, we are waiting until the kids are out of school, to create less of a disruption for them with moving and school. The he reason this is now being brought up is FI is extremely active in the church, as I am slowly being introduced to chuech members. So far, so good. However, the question has been brought up about how arrangements are when I am visiting. I currently stay at his house when there which means we share the bed…and then some 😉 We both realize this is wrong and don’t want to givea off the immoral position according to God’s law. Sex is meant for marriage. We both agree that there is no way to abstain in our relationship even tho our best attempts would be put forth. We have talked about moving the wedding date up to June, get married so his integrity with his standing within the church is not compromised as he has a calling for ministry. I fully support him with this. Then, continue the plan of marrying in September for friends and family, full dress and all. I am deem, Queen of excuses and for this, I cannot justify any. I know he is the love of my life. I respect him beyond any man I’ve have even met and am excited about our future. He is equally as excited about our lives together, we just want to do it right without waiting what already feela like forever. OPINIONS?? Thank you in advance 😉
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