To wet (Way Way TMI)

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
664 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Could you get SO to clarify whether it’s a wetness or tightness thing? If you think it’s a tightness thing from having kids then you probably just need to do some kegels. I really don’t know what to do if it’s wetness, short of towelling off a bit.

Post # 5
8388 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@aithinne:  K since this is a TMI post, I’m assuming you’re ready to get some TMI answers.  I get really wet when I have sex with my husband, but he loves it because he can tell I’m really turned on.  However, my husband is somewhat well endowed and I’ve never had kids, so I’m not sure if that may have something to do with it.  I would probably think that bunnymama’s suggestion of kegels might help if it’s a size/tightness issue.  Otherwise, I don’t see why taking a quick break to towel off wouldn’t work.

Post # 6
4072 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Have a towel on the night stand. 🙂 Every so often I feel like we don’t have enough friction, so we just pause for a moment and wipe us both down quickly. It takes only 10 seconds, and it usually feels much better for both of us for a long time afterward. If you’re having a longer session, just take another towel break.

Post # 7
753 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@aithinne:  way TMI too but this happens to me too. Sometimes the solution that DH comes up with is to go down on me for a little while and then i return the favor. which usually (i cringe writing this) “dries me out a little” hahaha  it usually works and adds something different our normal sexuals 😉 

Post # 9
560 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I have this problem too ! It’s so embarrassing for me and yes I’ve googled it too! The weird thibg is that he can just be touching my skin or giving me neck rub and it starts.  necer hsd this issue w other guys so i guess there is something to be said about pheremones !

Unfortunately there isn’t much you can do to prevent it ( sometimes taking benadryl has ‘dried me up ‘ ) but that was coincidental since I took it for allergies.  What PP mentioned about friction seems to be the issue with being overly wet. 

My DH says he isn’t concerned or bothered by it when I ask (as I said I get so embarrassed) if its really bad I just wipe myself  really quick and it helps.  Sometimes if I orgasm quickly it ‘dried’ me up so on days when it’s really bad I get him to take care of me early so thst the session is better for him .  

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