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    Hi guys!

    I don't know why, maybe it was the dream I had that my BF said he didn't want to marry me (funny how dreams effect you!), but I am freaking bitter today!  I think we've been talking too much marriage lately and I am going to completely, 100% lay off. 

    So back into the BLITZ season challenge I go!

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    Good luck not talking about it!  It does seem to happen when you don't talk about it!

     
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    LacyLust    May 21, 2011   Ohio

    Yes Good Luck! Lips Zipped! It makes it soo much better. We didn't really talk about it much before it happened but if we did it would have made the wait a lot harder. I especially couldn't have stayed sane if I would have found this site before being engaged. I'd be crazy reading about all these engagements happening when I was waiting. I say steer clear of WeddingBee for a while if your SUPER BITTER! I'm sure that would help your mood.

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    Oddly enough the Hive makes me less bitter.  It is very refreshing to know that I am not the only person in this situation and that hey we are going to get engaged one day (look at Corgs, Afish, Waitingprincess, sweetheartdealer) the list of the graduate waiting ladies goes on and on!!   I say stay here and vent if you have to, you'd definitely not vent to your honey.  btw, i've had dreams where m did something in my dream and i just got so pissed at him that it lasted throughout the day.  ((HUGS))

     
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    trugem    January 2011  

    Awe... I had a wedding dream last night too. I woke up before I could findout what happened. I don't think that the guys understand how much this waiting is affecting us. Just remember that it was a dream and not realtiy. I had to tell myself that because I have been having wedding dreams/nightmares lately.

     
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    HoneyBear    March 17, 2012   Texas/ Isla Mujeres

    I agree with crebre, I find it a lot easier to not talk about it to my bf now that I found the hive!

     
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    Gah, I have super-bad engagement brain but at least I got stuff figured out. :)  I'm relatively sure I know what BM dresses I want, colors, centerpieces, and some venue options. 

     

     
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    waterprincess    June 25, 2011   Ohio

    mmmtacos!  I am ALWAYS mad at my BF when I have a dream like that.  He gets mad and keeps saying he didn't do anything, but it seems real!  He had a bad dream about me last night, and woke up and grabbed me hugging me.  It goes both ways.  Anyways the hive has really helped my craziness about waiting.  

    Join the Christmas (V-day, maybe,) Challenge!  I'm going a week strong!!  

     
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    Oh that gave me the warm fuzzies.. I just remembered when my BF had a dream I was dead, and when he woke up he said he never wanted to lose me. :(

     
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    msmonicka    June 19, 2010   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    It was really hard for me not to talk about so if you have the will power then I commend you.

     
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    Special K       alabama

    I agree. This site also makes me feel better that it will happen eventually. Having others to vent to helps me be Less resentful towards the BF.

     

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