Post # 1
I have a head-splitting migrane, my school loan won’t get approved and the payment is due in 2 days, my meds cost 40 bucks instead of 10. Forecast 90% chance of crappy day ahead… and sure enough
SO tells me he can’t come to my work dinner this Satruday and I was so very looking forward to him coming with me. I got pissed and long story short my new thing with SO is when i’m mad I have to talk to him… not allowed to do the “quiet because you should know what’s wrong you jerk” thing anymore. And while i hate to admit it, SO was right… talking it out right away makes arguements more like discussions that are over much shorter than any “fight” would’ve been. The best however was during our conversation via skype when the following occured.
Me:You already know I don’t like taking money from people. If you offer me money I’m probably going to deny it unless it’s something for both of us.
SO: I’m not people. I’m likely your future husband. So get used to it!
Me: likely huh
SO: yeah, i mean, as long as i find a nice enough ring and decide to propose
Me: yeah, that would help I suppose, kind of an important peice, the asking part. (LOL HINT HINT)
SO: I know
Today could’ve been crappy…. but it wasn’t.
Any other bees out there have stories of when sh1t seemed about to hit the fan and those wonderfully frustrating men we call SO saved the day?! I’d love to hear more gooey romantics!
Post # 3
It’s nice to hear that you found some good in what could have been less than stellar!! Keep that spirit through the waiting and into the planning!! It’s apparently coming!!
Post # 4
Aw that’s sweet! I’m sorry your having a crappy day, but it’s good when they turn it around just by mentioning something like that lol! My SO has been dropping hints lately like CRAZY! I was having a bad waiting day ( Spent the day with 3 engaged girls who are all planning their weddings, HELL! lol) and SO saw I was having a real bad day and said ” Since we both want a short engagement..you can.. I mean..KIND OF start planning somethings, like look things up..show me what you like..but DON’T book anything” I was seriously seconds away from crying then he said that and I did a complete mood 360 LOL
Post # 5
@FutureMrs.browneyes: It really does just pick your mood right up! I love hints of any kind, it’s just exciting to know that they are excited too! I hate how the wedding is always seen as just the woman’s thing… I want him to WANT to be a part of it as well. To see this as a fun experience and get excited for the potential awesomeness to come in the future LOL
Post # 6
That is just wonderful. My SO started me off with a great day today. Stuff in my family is kinda sucky but my SO has been my rock through everything. ANYWAY, He normally leaves for work about 45 minutes before I wake up, but he had the day off today so he was hanging around while I got ready for work. When I was about to leave he told me how pretty I looked and kissed me real nice before I walked out the door. It’s going to be tough to have a bad today today!
Post # 7
I had 3 bad days of PMS and thought that someone will get hurt LOL cuz my SO is really busy at work and I thought that his plan of proposing in 2012 won’t happen. At the end however my SO made all my worries go away when he told me that he will make time and not to worry, it will happen 🙂
Also this morning, before going to work I told my SO that he is a thief, he asked why, I then said : because you stole my heart! But he didn’t say anything to that. So i was a little sad that he didn’t find it cute etc…
Well he came to my work this morning about 1 hour late to give me a note that reads:
“Just a little note to advise you that although I confess that I stole your heart, please know that I have no intention of ever giving it backand hold no regret or remorse for doing so. Guilty as charged. However I promise to take care of it. Know it’s in good hands you can trust and will be protected, nourished and yes …. cherished. Love SO”
How can i ever be upset 🙂
Post # 8
@Lulume: He came to your job! that note is so sweet I wanna cry. Tears will fall into my morning coffee
Post # 9
@Sapphire-Dreamer: Aw, that is the sweeetest! Definitely impossible not to have a bounce in your step!!