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Tonight, I tell him I've moving out. I love him and he means a lot to me, but our relationship is failing to thrive. I've secured my own place and will be moving in a week. I am using the four days I'd taken off for vacation to get the move done.
I met with my therapist this morning to discuss how to talk to him about this. We made a plan. Now I feel sick to the stomach. I'm still okay with my decision, it is just hard.
Stay strong! I admire you for making a decision and following through. I don't know your story but you posted in "waiting" so I assume he is failing to step up. If he wants to continue a relationship and potentially marry you, you don't have to live together to do so. Sending warm thoughts your way.
Oh I am so sorry...I know how hard it is....I have been in the same spot before. Its hard to hurt someone you love. Stay strong ((hugs))
You are brave and you are doing the right thing. Sending thoughts of happiness and strength your way!
I've been reading a few of your posts, and just wanted to lend some support. I know it's very hard to admit when a relationship isn't working and be the one to call it off. I just wanted to tell you that you're a very strong person, and I wish you all the best.
Everyone is right. It takes a very strong person to stand up for what you need. I hope everything goes well and please keep us updated. We're always here to lend an ear, so to speak. Good luck!
@mermaideve: I just wanted to say how PROUD I am of you for taking a stand. I can only imagine how difficult this is for you, but your needs deserve to be met. You are a VERY STRONG person for being able to asess your situation and not be afraid to make the best decision for YOU.
I wish you the very best of luck tonight and with your move and just wanted to remind you that we are here for you. ***Hugs***
I wish I could have been as strong as you back in my 20s, before I wasted 10 years old someone. Stay strong, but it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and are a smart woman.
Best of luck!
Good luck! I hope it goes well and isn't too painful for either of you. I think it's amazing how strong you are being. I know I don't know you, but I'm proud of you.
Good luck. I was in a situation a few years ago where I knew we shouldn't be together but I wasn't as strong as you are. I stayed for a very long time--all because it was a comfortable, and I was embarrassed to admit it wasn't working to family and friends. Good for you. It's hard, but IT DOES GET EASIER. Faster than you will think.
@mermaideve: I'm proud of you! Walking away is hard, but walking away from my last relationship was hands down the BEST thing I have ever done. Just take it one day at a time! Focus on making it through a day without him, then a week, then 30 days, and so on. And before you know it? He'll just be some dude in your past who will make you appreciate your future man more! {Hugs!!}
((((HUGS)))) and best of luck. Sorry you have to do this, but huge props for taking initiative and getting out.
I just read a couple of your posts and it looks like you're absolutely doing the right thing for yourself... A fresh start, a new place you can decorate however you like, I hope you make the most of it :) best wishes and let us know how it goes!
Thank you for this post! As Women , we need strong figures in our life to show us that it can be done.
Stay strong, you can do this! There is a much better situation in the future awaiting you :)
@mermaideve: I wish you the best of luck! That's a really hard decision to make and I am glad that you seem like you have your head on straight.
Stay strong. And feel free to come back to the Bee and find support :)
@mermaideve:Stay strong. It's hard, I know, but I think you'll find that once you're out, you'll have a sense of relief and be energized.
Good luck and stay strong! I'm happy that you are doing what you feel is best for you right now.
Good luck! I hope everything works out okay and you find a great guy who shares your dreams about the future. **HUGS**
Good luck, and we are thinking of you! You can always turn to the Bee for support. You are a very strong lady to be doing what you need to do for you.
You are indeed very strong and I'm proud of you. I know it isn't fun, but if in your heart you know it's the right thing to do you can't go wrong. I only hope that if I have to make this decision I handle it as well are you are!
Good luck and keep us posted.
Hugs!!!!
HUGS! let us know how did it go, we'll have you in our prayers, good luck!
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