(Closed) Too early for a bachelorette party?

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
609 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m having a destination wedding but on top of that I’d say probably 75% of the guests live in another state anyways. Because of this & the fact that my best friend is in school I’ll probably have mine during the summer (I’m getting married in September) just so that everyone will be able to come that wants to and it won’t be too close to the wedding so they have time to space out the money spending.

Post # 4
87 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@mmcd1523: I think you can do the party whenever works best for everyone coming! That doesn’t sound too early to me at all. 

Post # 5
2362 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - New York Botanical Garden

I had a destination bachelorette and it was in April for my June wedding – definitely didn’t feel too early.

Post # 6
9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

You have to think about the others who would be attending too, would they be able to have the money by May?  Personally I think, 4 months ahead is a bit early

Post # 7
59 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

i dont think its too early at all!  I am a bit biased… 🙂


I live in Arizona and am getting married in NJ in October.  Is is 115 from June until October, so in order to beat the heat, I am having a bachlorette party the last week of April. 


Ultimately it is totally up to you  ENjoy!!!!!!!!!

Post # 8
484 posts
Helper bee

Maybe don’t call it a ‘bachelorette’ but a ‘woohoo, I’m getting married let’s have a girls night out’ party? If the logistics come together as well as they seem to in May there’s no reason to travel all over again closer to the wedding I think. Be honest with your Maid/Matron of Honor and tell her you consider this your bachelorette and that you’re just very happy to have this opportunity to celebrate. Good luck!

Post # 9
491 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I just had my bachelorette party at the beginning of January, cause my girls were all from out of town or teachers/students going back to school after Christmas break, and it just worked out the best.  It felt early, but it was our only option….who’s gonna know anyway? It’s never to early to party! =)

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