Too early to stress, but..

posted 3 years ago in June 2014
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@wabanzi:   *hugs* to my month twin!  Is there a particular aspect of the wedding that is stressing you?  

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@wabanzi:   Perhaps being aware of the freak-out moment will help you to get through it.   I’m the same way.  We host a huge family get together every year, and every year I have a panic moment.  I think that is pretty normal when you want things to go well.  Do you have a DOC?  We just hired one and it has been a huge relief for me.  

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@wabanzi:  I 100%%% do NOT want to be a zilla either.  I think I am making it even more stressful because I am stressing out about not being a zilla on top of everything.  Either way we are date twins and I had my first 10 minute break down on sat before I pulled myself together and said stop lol

 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Yeah – I think a big part of it is realizing its all real now.  I personally think I had a mini breakdown about things not going as planned which I promised myself I wouldnt do but it happened anyway lol.  

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

wabanzi:  I am turning into a bridezilla! Ahh! I am trying not to. I have had 3 (THREE!) vendors tell me I’d hear back from them within a week to schedule meetings and other things. This was over 2-3 weeks ago and I haven’t heard from any of them! And then, I asked our DJ to put together a mix of two songs for me, and I specifically said “fade out of one song and into the other” and they keep “meshing” them together… FI has officially taken this task over. I am still waiting for the other vendors. I don’t know when it is appropriate and un-bridezilla-y to email the other vendors back.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

wabanzi:  The ice cream machine sounds awesome, I hope it works out! The frustrating thing is they were all AWESOME and responded within one day when I first was booking them. The DJ’s are responding quick, but I guess don’t understand what I am looking for. So, that is why I told FI to take care of it.. haha.

If I don’t hear back from the others by this weekend I will contact them again. I just need to word it nicely 😉

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

wabanzi:  I know where you’re coming from. I felt like we had tons of time, but as soon as February hit, I started stressing out. I feel like there is so much left to do, and people telling me “but you have a lot done already” doesn’t help.

I’ve told myself to just relax, do as much as I can in a day and that it will all come together. I’m sure it will for you too!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

eliseemma:  I feel like I am having your DJ dilema with my invites. I am having them custom designed and they keep leaving out tiny details I keep asking for and now we are in a time crunch because they need to be at the printer next week, but if they would just give me what I asked for a week ago this would be DONE!

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

dms0622:  I agree hearing you have so much done is not helpful because there is still SO much more!

wabanzi:  um that is absurd with the ice cream lady!!! what the heck?!?

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