- 4 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
Disclaimer: I know that this is technically “improper etiquette,” but, here goes anyway:
When I started my job about 10 months ago, I was engaged/planning the wedding/the guest list was pretty much finished, and we planned to invite nearly 300 people.
At first I never considered inviting my new co-workers, but over the last few months I’ve gotten really close with a lot of them and I LOVE the atmosphere at my job. These girls are awesome!!
I realized that I wanted to invite them to the wedding, but with such a huge guest list already, there was no room for 15 of them plus their SOs. So I didn’t put them on the guest list.
Well now, 3 weeks to the wedding, we are only expecting about 180 people out of nearly 300. So there’s plenty of room for them to come.
I know by talking to them that most of them would love to be there. And I don’t think they’d be offended if I extended a late invitation. But out of the 15 girls, there are maybe 5 that I’m not as close to …. and I’m wondering if they would feel weird about the whole thing.
So …. should I invite them? All of them? Or just some?
I really want them to be there to share my day!