- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
I know my bachelorette party is a ways away, but my girlfriends like chatting about it so I thought I’d see how you ladies think I should handle this!
We were originally all going to go to Vegas for a long weekend. One of my BMs really doesn’t want to go though and I don’t want to have the party without her because she means a lot to me.
I mentioned this to the other girls and suggested we stay in NYC, and just go bar hopping for the night. I thought things were settled.
Then one of my MOHs (I have 2) approached me and said, “I really want to take you to Vegas. I would like to take you and the other Maid/Matron of Honor with me for a long weekend. Consider it part of your wedding gift. It won’t be a bach party, just a weekend away.”
I am totally down with this, but I am worried about offending the other bridesmaids who wanted to go to Vegas?
As a sidenote, a different Bridesmaid or Best Man is still convinced that we’re having the party in the Vegas. She keeps saying how excited she is to go to Vegas next year. Last week I *again* mentioned that we are NOT going to Vegas and I would like to stay in NYC. She’s starting to get on my nerves because she also keeps talking about strippers (which myself and my other bridesmaids are NOT comfortable with) and she keeps asking me who is planning the party. Anyways I know I am starting to ramble/vent now, but she is the person I’m most concerned about offending, although the other ladies were excited for the trip too.
Is this a bad idea?