(Closed) Too many choices?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I know what you mean! My BMs are all wearing the same dress that I chose but they can wear any shoes & jewelry they want and they can do their hair & makeup however they’d like. I guess this is more freedom than some girls are used to because I keep getting pics of shoes and hair especially and they ask what I think. I never say I don’t like something because I won’t be the one wearing it! Plus I trust them all to choose cute things based on their individual styles. I just wish some of the BMs would trust themselves too! I keep telling them whatever they choose will be fine.

Post # 4
57 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I am going through the EXACT SAME THING!!  I want each of my girls to look their best.  I mean I have a few BM’s dresses in my closet that I HATE and didn’t want to do that to my friends.  I happen to think that they are all hot and pictures are forever so why shouldn’t they look their best?   I picked the designer, color, fabric and length and they were supposed to pick their own style.  The kept asking me questions about which one I wanted them to where and they didn’t seem to realize that me saying that it really didn’t matter to me as long as they followed the parameters.  My MOH just wants me to pick a dress for her.  It is so frustrating!!  I completely agree with you that I don’t want to manage this part because, hello, I have a WEDDIN to plan.  I think they finally just realized that I truly do want them to pick their own dresses and to look their best and are all in the process of picking the dresses now.   I have no clue how the shoes and accessories will go.  I was thinking of making their jewelry for each dress style. 

I love the fact that they want to make my day my day, but I just want them to get dresses that they would wear again. 

Hugs! I hope it all goes well for you!

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