- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
I’ve looked around to see if anyone has any similar scenerios but I think mines an original. A good friend of mine, has been very loyal and always there for me, shes even helped store some belongings when I moved out of state and checked our mail. And I have always said she is a very loyal friend. My dilemna is she is prone to drama, she is always attaching herself to bf’s and when it doesn’t work out she gets very emotional and will not perk up until she attracts another male’s attention. She has other various emotional/clingy/drama issues. But its gotten to the point where I don’t enjoy being around her, last time I was in town I spent majority of the time with other close friends and when I did see her all she did was bitch about the ex (who is actually a really nice guy, they just weren’t good together) and cause drama about how he wouldn’t say Hi to her.
I also need to mention that when we first got engaged I always thought she would be a Bridesmaid or Best Man, and my fiance actually introduced her to a friend of his as a Bridesmaid or Best Man. Now he thinks shes too much drama as well, and doesn’t want her as a part of our wedding party.
Do I officially as her to be a BM? Do I discuss the issue I’m having with her? I feel like any time I’ve tried to bring up her issues she avoids and or denies having them. Its like talking to a wall.
I don’t plan on officially asking any BM’s until a year out (May 2012) so I have some time, but would appreciate any opinions or help…