Too much sex drive?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
1040 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@cbco:  To be honest, you may have more testosterone in your body than most women but that indeed is NOT a bad thing by any means. My best friend has a medical condition where she has a higher sex drive due to the lingering amount of testosterone in her body. But there is a such thing as a higher sex drive. I think you should explain to him why you don’t feel like having sex around your period because lets face it we feel sluggish and bloated etc. He needs to understand that, as well as you need to understand when he doesn’t want to have sex, its nothing against you. I would communicate with him and ask him why he isn’t as intrested into the sex as often. Has he always been lacking a sexual drive close to yours? My advice is to just plain talk about it, communication is key and you guys can come to a conclusion together. 🙂 hope that helps!

Post # 4
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Yeah, it bothers my DH, too. He hates feeling like he can;t keep up!

I just “take care of it myself” except the once or twice a week when DH wants to have sex!

Post # 5
2992 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I have always had a sex drive – ever since I was a teenager. I could easily have sex several times a day, every day. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a high sex drive. You may need to supplement lovemaking with your husband with self-pleasuring yourself. And there is nothing wrong with that either!

Post # 7
1400 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I think there’s such a thing as incompatible sex drives, but for me that’s more like polar opposites. I think if you’re anywhere near similar, with communication and solo pleasure, you can make it work 😉

That being said, I never would have married a guy without thoroughly testing our sexual compatibility, and after living together for almost two years, we’re still very much on the same page 🙂 I only have my period every three months, so that helps, and I probably wine about not really being able to have sex more than he does 😛

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