- 6 years ago
Hello sexy ladies,
Hmm how do I not stretch this out to long? Ok well a couple of weeks ago I wrote a post in regards to my boyfriend asking me to write him a letter with all of my hopes dreams goals for the future ( He is in the war in afgan at the moment). We have been living together for about 8 months and we have been seeing eachother for about a year an a half… im 26 he is 28 and he will be back mid this year.
I was asking people if they think that I should write about my desigre to get married sometime in the near future ( amoungst my other plans) or whether I should wait for his hopes dreams goals letter to get to me first so I could suss out what his expectations were before I pushed the marrige card..
I ended up writing to him a very general letter which was kind of like , I want to get better at my job, I want to have financial security, and I want to have an amazing partner who loves me as much as I love him. ( you feeling the general?)
anyway I received his letter a couple of days ago and it was really lovely – it said stuff like I want my job to take a back seat so we can create more memories together, I want to get a dog, he wants to see me improve with my studies, and where he sees us living in the future and then he said ” If there is anything you should get out of my rambling is that you are in all of my plans”
– I thought this letter was awesome and I appreciate that he can communicate this to me, its just that I already knew I was in his future plans- these are subjects that we have discussed before he left – So to be honest with you while it was lovely I was expecting something a little bit more serious i.e plans for us to be more than boyfriend and girlfriend…especially seeing as it was his idea to start all of this opening up stuff….
he mentioned in his letter that he wants to know everything baout me and that I should not hold back with the questions….
So I replied to his letter very positivley saying that our goals and dreams match up nicely and that I share his desigre to create more memories with eachother.
In my concluding sentence I wrote “Where do you see marrige and children fitting into the grand scheme of things?” One sentence in a 4 page letter—- TOO MUCH??
Any chance you think he might of wanted to hear this from me?
Do you think that he might be feeling me out for a proposal?
Do you think that last sentence of mine will freak him out?
I dont see how you couldnt think of getting married but could think about what out house would look like in 20 years time… ( FYI he is not against marrige at all)
Thanks ladies… Im very anxious about this …any feedback would be appreciated..