(Closed) Too sexy for a virgin? (pic included)

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
12904 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think you should get whatever makes you feel sexy and confident.  Whether thats something like what you posted, or it’s a more modest set, is up to you! 

Post # 4
693 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I was almost a virgin bride (some mega-anxiety made me cave a few weeks before the wedding) and I think you can wear WHATEVER you want!  Personally, I wore something very sweet and white on our wedding night because it was pretty and white was obviously the color of the day.  But it doesn’t have to be that way.  I say  have fun with it!  I know my Darling Husband would’ve been super happy to see me in one of these!

Post # 5
693 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

And actually, where did you find those?  lol.  Might need that red number for my anniversary! Wink

Post # 6
4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Your fiance will be thrilled.

You should have one modest one and one sexy one. At least that is how I feel anyway. It is your first time, you should feel sexy anyway. Don’t worry about it.

Btw, I like the red.

Post # 7
2273 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

If you have the figure and confidence to pull them off go for it πŸ™‚ i am doing cutesy stuff myself πŸ˜‰ but that is because personally I DON’T have the confidence to pull off sexy πŸ™‚ (thou Fiance would think I am sexy in a sack hehe)

ETA: red is def my fav πŸ™‚


Post # 9
1068 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

You and your fiance are going to enjoy yourselves the most if you feel comfortable, confident, and sexy.  So wear whatever makes you feel that way. Adn don’t worry about being judged, because the only one who will know is your DH!!!

Post # 10
57 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@justcurious333:  not too sexy… its the perfect amount of sexy! 

                      My husbad and I waited until we were married, and honestly there is no harm in boosting your confidence for the night of/honeymoon with some hot lingerie! 

Post # 11
4109 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

The sexier, the better. Your SO will love it either way.

Post # 12
196 posts
Blushing bee

Hey, if you feel comfortable in it, go for it girl! 

Have you tried on anything similar yet?  If there’s a Frederick’s of Hollywood or something nearby, that’d be a good place to try things on if you haven’t.

Post # 13
247 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

confidence is all you need.  Your Fi has already had ur whole pre marriage relationship as foreplay, i would skip the lingerie. what is the purpose of the lingerie anyways?  to feel sexy? then yesh wear it, but i am sure he will be eagerly anticipaing the night, so no outfit would be needed. 


Post # 14
1132 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Can you be too sexy on your wedding night? I don’t think so. πŸ˜‰ I think he’ll love it and you should go with what makes you feel best! The red one is awesome!

Post # 15
3626 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I don’t think it matters that you’re a virgin, I think the only thing that matters is your comfort level! Don’t feel forced to wear something you’re uncomfortable in, but don’t feel like you can’t wear something sexy. I’m sure he’ll be thrilled no matter what.

Post # 16
3471 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

Sexy is all about confidence– if you want to look sexy, wear something you like (I vote for the red one!) If you don’t like it, it wont be sexy. 

And your “status” has absolutely NOTHING to do with it! πŸ™‚

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