Post # 1
Hi Everyone 🙂
I am 23 years old, and am getting married in October this year. I am a virgin, but i am not embaressed of my sexuality and i am very comfortable with my body. Just as a note (not that it matters), i have not saved myself due to religious reasons, it was a personal promise i made to myself as a young girl. I dont know if my fiance will be shocked (possibly in a good way) at me wearing something so sexy for my first time. My older sister suggested i ease into lingerie, like wear the white modest stuff, then when we get more sexually comfortable get into this style of sexy night wear.
Now, i was looking at wedding night lingerie everywhere and any of the “traditional” white lingerie for the bride (that i actually found appealing) was too overpriced for my liking. Here are the two sets i was looking at:
So the question is, is this too sexy for a virgin? what do you think?
Post # 3
I think you should get whatever makes you feel sexy and confident. Whether thats something like what you posted, or it’s a more modest set, is up to you!
Post # 4
I was almost a virgin bride (some mega-anxiety made me cave a few weeks before the wedding) and I think you can wear WHATEVER you want! Personally, I wore something very sweet and white on our wedding night because it was pretty and white was obviously the color of the day. But it doesn’t have to be that way. I say have fun with it! I know my Darling Husband would’ve been super happy to see me in one of these!
Post # 5
And actually, where did you find those? lol. Might need that red number for my anniversary!
Post # 6
Your fiance will be thrilled.
You should have one modest one and one sexy one. At least that is how I feel anyway. It is your first time, you should feel sexy anyway. Don’t worry about it.
Btw, I like the red.
Post # 7
If you have the figure and confidence to pull them off go for it 🙂 i am doing cutesy stuff myself 😉 but that is because personally I DON’T have the confidence to pull off sexy 🙂 (thou Fiance would think I am sexy in a sack hehe)
ETA: red is def my fav 🙂
Post # 8
@ItsPronounced_ABear: thanks! 🙂 im still unsure of what to wear, but these are from agentprovocateur.com they can be very expensive but for special occassions i feel its sortn of okay lol
Post # 9
You and your fiance are going to enjoy yourselves the most if you feel comfortable, confident, and sexy. So wear whatever makes you feel that way. Adn don’t worry about being judged, because the only one who will know is your DH!!!
Post # 10
@justcurious333: not too sexy… its the perfect amount of sexy!
My husbad and I waited until we were married, and honestly there is no harm in boosting your confidence for the night of/honeymoon with some hot lingerie!
Post # 11
The sexier, the better. Your SO will love it either way.
Post # 12
Hey, if you feel comfortable in it, go for it girl!
Have you tried on anything similar yet? If there’s a Frederick’s of Hollywood or something nearby, that’d be a good place to try things on if you haven’t.
Post # 13
confidence is all you need. Your Fi has already had ur whole pre marriage relationship as foreplay, i would skip the lingerie. what is the purpose of the lingerie anyways? to feel sexy? then yesh wear it, but i am sure he will be eagerly anticipaing the night, so no outfit would be needed.
Post # 14
Can you be too sexy on your wedding night? I don’t think so. 😉 I think he’ll love it and you should go with what makes you feel best! The red one is awesome!
Post # 15
I don’t think it matters that you’re a virgin, I think the only thing that matters is your comfort level! Don’t feel forced to wear something you’re uncomfortable in, but don’t feel like you can’t wear something sexy. I’m sure he’ll be thrilled no matter what.
Post # 16
- Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA
Sexy is all about confidence– if you want to look sexy, wear something you like (I vote for the red one!) If you don’t like it, it wont be sexy.
And your “status” has absolutely NOTHING to do with it! 🙂