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  • poll: Which dress would you wear?
    Chiffon RD1044 : (8 votes)
    14 %
    Lace Karena Royale : (49 votes)
    86 %
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    Angela83    June 2011  

    Unfortunately, I wasn't allowed to take pics in either one, but I am torn between two dresses with two different looks (chiffon v. lace) and would appreciate suggestions!  We're getting married in late June outside.. the venue is a mansion overlooking the bay... but the reception would be in a large tent.

    The first is the Maggie Sottero Destinations RD1044 but NO shoulder strap.  I would take off the flowers for the ceremony and wear a mantilla veil.  For the reception, I would wear the flowers across the front, but still no shoulder strap.

    http://www.maggiesottero.com/dress.aspx?style=RD1044

    The next is the Maggie Sottero Karena Royale, but with a sweetheart neckline.  I would wear a mantilla veil with no sash for the ceremony, and wear just the sash for the reception (no veil).

    http://www.maggiesottero.com/dress.aspx?style=S5229

    The chiffon is very comfortable and light and easy to move in, which is a consideration b/c we'll be getting married outside in the summer, and it could be close to 90 degress... I also want to be comfortable in general... I also want to be able to eat what I want, dance, etc.

    The lace dress is a bit heavier, and I know I will be hot... but it just looks more bridal to me or somthing... for some reason I can't really let go of the lace.

     Thanks for reading, I know this is long!

     

     
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    mcnetn3    August 13, 2011   North Carolina

    If you aren't getting married for another year, you may want to wait and see how your event and feelings about it evolve before settling on a dress, especially if you are having a hard time choosing.

    If I had to choose today, I'd go with the Karena Royale even though it will be hot as hades in that dress outside.  I just think the chiffon dress is a more casual look and it doesn't sound like your wedding is going to be very casual. I've seen the Desinatinos dress on a friend of mine and it is beautiful, but it just seem more like a beach kinda dress.

     
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    tnason    August 31, 2010  

    To me the chiffon dress looks a little too flowy, almost like a nightgown.  I like a little more structure, but it is a personal preference.

     
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    Amaryllis    July 2, 2011  

    Even though you'll be outside, your setting (a mansion overlooking the bay) seems more formal than the feel of the chiffon dress. I like the idea of the lace better, but you could always look for a different lace dress that is less structured/heavy/less beading.

     
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    Angela83    June 2011  

    The venue is semi-formal I guess... the mansion is there for the cocktail hour, but isn't used for the reception.  The reception is outside on a brick patio under a tent.  But yeah.. I still dunno if it would be too "beachy."  Thanks bees, keep it coming!

     
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    jingle96    May 28, 2010   DW in ARUBA/livin' in VA

    I like the chiffon first, only I might be a little biased because I wanted that dress after I already found my actually wedding dress.  It would have fit my DW in Aruba.\

    BUt after hearing about your venue, I think the lace dress would be more appropiate.  And its just as gorgeous!

     
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    Loribeth    December 1, 2010   Michigan (Married in Savannah, GA)

    I agree that the Maggie RD1044 is very easy to move around in. I tried it on, and that was one of the things that I really liked about it. And once I tried it on, I really thought that was what I wanted--something in chiffon that was easy to move in.  But then I tried on a few more gowns, probably at least 20, and decided to go with a lace gown. It's true you can't move as easily, but you need to really consider how formal or informal you want to go.

    These two dresses are so incredibly different, that I don't think you've found your dress. I was convinced I wanted a Maggie, but in the end, I found a Casablanca that I absolutely loved, so I suggest being open to other designers...

    You have some time. I'd keep looking.

     
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    lulu mae    January 8, 2012   NY

    I think either of them sound like they would work well with your wedding- I can see either of them in the two venues you described. They are both so different though so it's hard to say which would be better! :( Both are very beautiful! It sounds like maybe you like the lace better for the look of it and that you like the first one better because you think it'll be more practical? If that's the case, I saw go with the lace one because in the end, it seems like it will make you feel the most beautiful on your wedding day!

     
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    alligatress    October 10, 2010   NY

    I tried the chiffon dress on, and I felt like it didn't have enough structure in the bodice, making it almost look like a maternity gown.

    I am also having a beach wedding, and def. agree with PPs that it definitely a beachy gown.

     
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    Treasure43    September 18, 2010  

    I Love the lace!

     
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    AClaire    June 25, 2011   Chicago, IL

    If you MUST decide right now, go with the lace.  If you can keep shopping, shop a little while longer.  Look for a lighter weight lace dress--they do exist!

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    I like the lace one.  I actually bought the one-shoulder dress, and I have large breasts and an hourglass figure- and I didn't like the way it looked on me.  I think it depends on your figure. 

     
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    soon2beMrsGP    October 13, 2010   TX

    If you can't let go of the lace, I say go with the Karena Royale-that's my dress too and I'm getting married on the beach in MX and yes, it will be hot, but I love it :)

     
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    NatDawn    July 2012  

    I love lace. I got a taffeta dress with lace overlay so it is light as a feather. I was so worried about sweating to death. I think both of your choices are grogeous! Karena Royale seems like to most popular dress right now, which would probably be a big factor, for me, in choosing. I like the Chiffon dress. It seems very elegant, ethereal and best of all, light. Plus, you know that not everyone is wearing it!

     
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    ta27    October 30, 2010  

    The chiffon reminds more of a destination dress.  I think the lace goes better with your venue. Both are very pretty though.

     
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    baldor1    May 7, 2012   Southern California

    I think the chiffon dress is pretty but does not go with your theme. The lace dress is gorgeous (but I am usually partial to lace) so if you had to pick one now I would go with lace. I have seen other lace dresses out there that are a little more flowy so I would keep looking. You have a lot of time so enjoy the search :)

     
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    Angela83    June 2011  

    Thanks bees!  I guess I'll keep looking... I know I have time.  I've just tried on sooo many, I am getting tired :) 

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I like the lace dress for the type of event you're having.  The first one is beautiful but it seems like more of a destination or beach wedding dress.  They're both amazing though.  I'd wait awhile, keep looking around, keep thinking about it and see if you can figure out a clear winner after some time has passed. 

     
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    DanielleZara    August 21, 2010   California

    Ok I HAVE to vote for the Karena Royale because THAT'S MY DRESS TOO!! I'm getting married outside and it will be about 90-95 degrees in a vineyard. But, I had to have it. It's not THAT hot of a dress. Wear your hair up if you have to and just do it :) I bought the pearl rose and I changed the sash to pearl rose too.

     
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    Farfromachildbride    March, 2010   Boston

    I am in the minority here but I think the lace is a bit too "churchy" for an outdoor wedding.  I'm sure I will get a backlash of comments, disagreeing with me but from your description of the venue, I think the chiffon is best.  And comfy, too!

     
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    Angela83    June 2011  

    Thanks bees!  I think I'll try to try them on the same day and compare.  A lot of my problem is that my mom (who lives 3 hours away and can't shop with me often) saw me try on the chiffon and really liked it, and generally, she doesn't like lace.

     

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