Traditions you skipped

posted 3 years ago in Traditions
  • poll: What traditions did you skip?
    Garter toss : (147 votes)
    37 %
    Bouquet toss : (115 votes)
    29 %
    Cake cutting : (19 votes)
    5 %
    First dance : (31 votes)
    8 %
    Ring exchange : (2 votes)
    1 %
    Toasts at the reception : (27 votes)
    7 %
    A white dress : (17 votes)
    4 %
    A wedding party : (23 votes)
    6 %
    Other! I'll tell you in the comments : (18 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013 - Vine Street Church

    You can’t choose multiple options on the poll, but we didn’t have a garter toss, bouquet toss, first dance, toasts… we also didn’t have any spotlight dances and had opposite sex attendants.

    Post # 4
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    3210 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    We are not having a reception, just dinner, so basically anything reception/dance-party-related. So no first dance, parent dances, garter toss, bouquet toss, or cake-cutting. We also don’t have a bridal party.

    We’re having an intimate wedding of only 16 guests!

    Post # 5
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    1987 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Can you change this poll so that you can select multiple options?

    We are not going to have: bouquet toss, garter toss, first dance, organized dances of any kid (mother/son, father/daughter), toasts at the reception, and a wedding party.

    Post # 6
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    721 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    we are skipping garter toss completely and instead of bouquet toss, we are doing an anniversary dance and giving the bouquet to the last couple standing (couple together the longest)

    Post # 7
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    1234 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    We skipped garter toss, bouquet toss, and cake cutting.

    Post # 8
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    2968 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    We’re not planning on having a bouquet toss, a gater toss or a white dress. We’re also not planning on having secondary sponsors which are more traditional within Filipino Catholic weddings.

    Post # 9
    Hostess
    8680 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Not doing toasts unless someone jumps up and does one without discussing it with us!

    Post # 10
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    147 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    We skipped the garter toss, father/daughter-mother/son dance, something old/new/borrowed/blue.

    I hate the way the garter toss looks. I didn’t want my husband under my dress in front of everyone.

    I didn’t do the parents dance because… well the real truth was because we couldn’t be bothered. It was not a priority for us.

    The something old/new/borrowed/blue thing… also could not be bothered.

    Sorry, I sound like a kinda lazy bride.

    Post # 11
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    10748 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    You need to allow the poll to choose multiple options. We are skipping garter/bouquet toss and first dances. 

    Post # 12
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    1599 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    We skipped all of those except the ring exchange and the toasts. Our wedding was fairly non-traditional.

    Post # 13
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    545 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @MoonlitMagnolia:  I skipped all of those (plus all special dances) except I wore a white dress, we exchanged rings and we did toasts (our fathers and then DH and I). We just didn’t care about the other stuff. 

    Post # 14
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    844 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2016

    All of them except exchanging rings! We eloped to NYC and I wore a plum dress!

    Post # 15
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    8916 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    Like others said, your poll is not the best for getting an accurate representation…

    We skipped the garter toss, bouquet toss, and wedding party.

    Post # 16
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    2630 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    We walked each other down the aisle. During the reception, we did not do parent dances or the garter or bouquet toss.

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