Trouble keeping an erection

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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8701 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Lots of things can screw up an erection. Smoking, drinking, stress, high blood pressure/low blood pressure, sleep deprivation, drug abuse, medication, all sorts of stuff. I wouldn’t imagine masturbation would be the cause — you guys aren’t the first to be in a LDR and I’m sure lots of men masturbate more than normal when they’re in one. I highly doubt you’re the one causing this, too. It’s silly to think like that.

This is definitely something to talk about a doctor with. It’s incredibly embarassing, but if it’s medical it could be an easy fix. There are also sex toys you might be able to interest him, such as cock rings. They can be used to both stimulate you & help him maintain his erection.

Post # 3
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72 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

The things that affect erections are sleep, blood pressure, medication, drugs, alcohol, cardio vascular health, and masturbation. 

Since he does masturbate try telling him not masturbate to pornography, not to use a death grip, and use lube – if he is going to masturbate. Also have him substain from self love for at least a few days prior to seeing you.

The vibrating ring also should help him keep an erection and help you out as well. 

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