- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 1999
SO, our 2 best friends (they just got engaged) and I went up to the national park nearby in a really small car and there was a “what to do when you are engaged” thing I glimpsed so I knew it was coming. Then we arrived and everyone turned to me and grinned expectantly and SO got out the ring box and popped it and I was literally blinded by the sparkle, I remember I couldn’t see at all, and he didn’t say anything so I asked, aren’t you going to put it on my finger.
So then he looks confused and puts it on my finger and then I remember I wanted to say “of course” if he asked me to marry him, so I’m smiling and laughing and I ask him if he’s going to ask me to marry him or not and so he asks but he isn’t excited so I just say yes. And then Boyfriend or Best Friend and I get out of the car and Boyfriend or Best Friend2 and SO take a walk and I’m so excited I can’t breathe and Boyfriend or Best Friend tells me I’m in shock and I’m not good with this kind of thing and I nod while I jump around but I still can’t breathe.
And then I finally calm down and Boyfriend or Best Friend and I look at my ring because it has stopped sparkling and I can see it now, and I look down and it is just a silver band with the word love embossed and then on the other side it has engraved in Spanish and then a translation in English “I have loved you for over 20 years”. And then I get really, really sad in my dream and my bubble is totally popped because the ring isn’t even meant for me, it is meant for somebody else. So I go ask SO what happened to the ring we picked out together and he gets really mad at me and yells at me “you wanted me to propose so I did, why isn’t that good enough”. And then I woke up.
WHAT DOES IT MEAN????
Hahaha, just kidding, it means I’m a spoilt brat and I’m terrified he will get me a ring different from the one we’ve picked out together. I actually told him this morning the whole dream and we laughed about it, especially about the whole “pawn shop ring” idea and he said he promises to make it much more special for me than that and grinned. He has plans this boy! YAY!
Please tell me I’m not alone in these ridiculously weird and detailed proposal dreams!