(Closed) Truth please – is this too much bling for day-to-day?

posted 6 years ago in Rings
  • poll: What do you ladies think?
    It's fine the way it is! If it's your personality, just rock it! : (72 votes)
    63 %
    It is a BIT much - maybe wear just one! : (32 votes)
    28 %
    Too much - ask Fi if he can exchange them? : (9 votes)
    8 %
    Other : (2 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    It *is* a lot of bling and does look a bit large, but “too blingy” is completely relative. If you are comfortable with it, cool go for it. If you’re not, then say so. πŸ™‚ Granted, this is coming from a girl who isn’t allowed to wear more than two rings because of the nature of my work (hospital).

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Can we see a picture of just one ?

    Post # 5
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    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I think it looks normal and I like it. Who cares what other people say. 

    Post # 6
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    5993 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    but I don’t want people to talk about me behind my back, you know

    people are going to talk whether you want it or not – your FI bought them for you with love and for you to wear so enjoy them

    Post # 7
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2004

    no way! those who will talk will be just talking from jealousy! i totally love it and no its not too blingy at all! DO IT!!!!

    Post # 8
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I see stacked sets that wide all the time.  I dont think its too much at all.

    Post # 9
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    It looks fabulous if you ask me! I think its sweet to have two bands for each wedding!

    Post # 10
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    143 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    ROCK IT GIRL! I think its very pretty and blingy! 

     

    Post # 11
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    429 posts
    Helper bee

    letm talk ! it looks great

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    They are gorgeous!!!!

    Post # 14
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I think it depends entirely on what your day to day life iS. 

    I mean, if you’re a social worker and going in to homes of people who are barely able to feed their kids, it would likely make some people uncomfortable or put off.  If you work in a law firm – Rock it lady!!

    (I don’t mean those as two concrete examples – but you get the idea.  I got engaged when I was doing pediatric home visits in a low income neighborhood, and I didn’t feel comfortable even with my dainty 1/3 carat in some of the homes, but in other environments, it wouldn’t even occur to me)

    Post # 15
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    1993 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Nope.  No such thing.  If you got it, wear it, and be happy for it!

    Post # 16
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2009 - City Hall

    I love it. Definitely not too much bling. To echo an earlier poster, people will talk behind your back no matter what — ‘too much bling,’ ‘too little bling’, or whatever the case may be. The way I see it, if the worst thing someone can find to gossip about is how beautiful your ring is, you’re doing pretty well right? πŸ™‚

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