- 5 years ago
I am new to the WB board, first post (woop, woop) but have been lurking for sometime now. I have come to realize this board makes me more at ease realizing some of us are all going through the “waiting phase” together or have been rhough it before…
Any who…I am 27 and my SO is 32…we have been together for 2.3 years and moved in together about 4 months ago and things are going great. Talking about marriage/engagement is nothing fond to us nor does it make things wierd, however I feel like my SO is getting to the phase where he wants me to stop nagging him about it or bringing it up so much. He doesn’t get pushy/mad, he just tells me “you can’t go one day without bringing it up, huh?”.
We went ring shopping exactly a year ago and each time I ask about us going again, he says okay but we never do or he just smirks (which sometimes makes me wonder even he has already gotten the ring, I’m doubting it, but my friends think otherwise). After lurking on WB for awhile, I told him we needed a timeline…well one thing about my SO is he jokes ALL THE TIME…so I tell him giving me a timeline was his homework and he comes back with “Ummmm prob round 2015…maybe 2014 depends on how this year goes financially” Then I ask if these are years of wedding or engagement and he goes…”Ummm…mwah, babe you know we gone do this, just chill babe” and continues on with the mushy talk and changes the subject (all this is via text). This is him all the time…so I never got a straight answer have you. He knows 2014/2015 is not even an option, so I feel he was just throwing out years to be funny knowing him…but idk.
I’m so confused Bees! At this point I want to not even mention it anymore which is hard b/c I was just in my BFFs wedding this past weekend which was amazing! UGGGHHHH…Idk what to do. I don’t want to be waiting forever :/…
A Newbie Waiting Bee!