- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
So, I have been reading, and impatiently waiting… And today I found the waiting boards… After reading your stories I feel ready to share mine…
My bf and I have been dating for 2.5 years and living together since about 1 year. I have known from the start that he is the one. We both have. We talk about how lucky we are. A lot. I am old fashioned in the sense that I didn’t want to be involved in the engagement process until it came time to say yes…However….Iwe did have a conversation (upon my moms insistence) that made sure that he knew that she had my grandmas ring, when the time came. And that was that.
In April my parents flew out for a surprise birthday party thrown by my amazing bf. on that trip my mom let it slip (on purpose) that she had given my bf the ring. He would have to get it reset and sized on his own.
In June we went back to Boston for an extended vaca and I thought that it might happen then and had started to get a little anxious…however meddling mom announced (unprovoked!) that she had told him to bring the ring and she would take him to his jewler and get the ball rolling. It was actually a relief to know something and I relaxed and was able to just enjoy our time together.
Well about a month ago his car got broken into in front of our house. The police came and I think he was so frazzled he asked me to get some papers out of his safe, I know the code but have no reason to ever go in there.mwhile as I’m looking for the papers I notice inbox and not thinking I open it up! It’s my ring! Redone, resized and perfect!
Now it’s been a month, he must have known I saw it and I’m still waiting and it’s making me crazy!!! What can I do? I don’t want to be a crazy girl, I want to be the fun, happy girl he loves…any advice on putting the ring out of my head!?