- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 1969
include a note in the shower invites to my FILs relatives who are also invited to our wedding. Due to his father and their father, he is not THAT close to them, but close enough to invite to his son’s wedding, which is fine. I have only met relatives from the mother’s side since they are all local, and she ‘turns the neck’ in the household.
My BMs are throwing me the shower and asked for the guest list and are inviting them, but I really don’t know what they are thinking. I would like to include a note in theirs that reads something like “I am really looking forward to meeting members of John’s family at the wedding, and hope you can make it to my shower”.
Do you think that is crossing the line?