(Closed) Trying to be a supportive MOH

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 4
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3295 posts
Sugar bee

Honestly, I wouldn’t worry about this until she actually becomes engaged. Then look in your checking account again and let her know whether or not if you can make it. Unless she would be funding your expenses, she can’t really be upset if you don’t have the money.

But also, if you don’t agree with their relationship, I wouldn’t go. I personally only want people standing next to me who are in support of us, not just half of us.

Post # 5
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1284 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I wouldn’t make any decisions until they get engaged either. Then, though, I would take a good hard look at my finances and see if I could get there. If not, I would talk to her about it immediately. 

I think it’s great that you want to support your friend in any decision that she makes. 

Good luck!

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