(Closed) Trying to decide if I should put my name on the waiting list yet

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
340 posts
Helper bee

Put your name on the list girl! You are waiting and it sounds like not as long as you think!

Post # 5
5967 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Simply by asking…the question is answered..on the list you go lady!

Post # 6
377 posts
Helper bee

Join! I did 8 months ago and although still on the list I’m still plodding along happily waiting.


I know lots of bees know when down to the month they are going to get engaged but I’ve classed myself as waiting since that is the next step in our lives and he knows it haha! But for all I know we might not get engaged for another year (although I have my fingers crossed for earlier than that Smile x

Post # 8
3787 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Put it on there! I am #44 and joined 11 months ago at #132.  SO had asked my Dad for his blessing a few months before.  I am still waiting, but the community here is great.

ETA just saw your update, good to see you’ve joined!

Post # 9
1314 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I know you already made your request but I agree with everyone, put your name on!!! It will also be a good support for you when you’re feeling frustrated with the wait. I was with mine for 5.5 years before we got engaged and I would’ve loved to have found the Waiting List while waiting just to have other Bees to vent to!

Post # 10
140 posts
Blushing bee

My SO says we’ll either get engaged after I finish undergrad or we’ll get marriedafter we finish our PhDs, so that’s either 8 months or several years for me! And I’m the list keeper. 😛

Post # 11
1294 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I honestly find it helpful being on the list…I know im near the mid-bottom and getting closer to the top every time shows me how fast time is going. I am still far away but if I put my expectations far away.. say I have to be in the double digits before he proposes then I dont feel so ansy 🙂 go on the list!

Post # 12
1670 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

This has motivated me to put my name on the list – I have been waiting to put mine on since I know it can’t happen until after next April, but darn it… I’m still waiting, so why not? No need to wait until April.

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