- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2012
I have a dilema…. We are trying to set a date for our wedding. About 6 years ago a male cousin of mine died very suddenly and tragically. It was devistating to our entire family. He had an 8year old and a newborn. Well his widow is getting remarried the end of this year, to a man with several children as well. My wedding is a destination wedding as it’s in my FI’s hometown, which is 2 hours south of my cousins widow’s location.
I just found out her date is a week after the date we are looking at. I have seen her a handfull of times since his death and while I like her, I’m sure I wouldn’t be invited to her wedding. I know my aunt’s and cousins will all be invited (15people). I would also be inviting some of the same people to my wedding. IF i go with the date a week before hers …. am i being evil?
No other weekend works that month for us, and if not this month then we have to wait to May of 2012. Thanks bee’s this is a lot longer then i thought it would be.