Trying to remain calm

posted 2 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 2
Member
42546 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

KateriPetrie:  She already knows. What’s to be gained by bringing it up? Take the high road. Say nothing now, and share nothing in the future.

Post # 3
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928 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Wow, I would be so pissed. Now it will look like you copied her. My sister and her sil were pregnant at the same time. My sister had her daughter’s name picked out right from the beginning. The sil never even indicated she liked it.

Of course, sil gave birth first and used the name but with a completely different spelling. A few days later my niece was born and my sister went through with her original plan for the name but it left her with such a bitter taste in her mouth for the sil being dirty like that.

I agree it won’t do you any good to say anything now. Hopefully, you will have time to change some things though. ((hugs))

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Post # 4
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230 posts
Helper bee

A lot of Bees will likely say you shouldn’t care, it’s one day, move on, etc. But my feelings would be hurt too. You’re not alone! 

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