Post # 1
Alright so to make a long story short my fsil got married today,6 weeks before me. Our themes have been very similar since she got engaged and set their date (3 months ago). I’ve been engaged for over a year. We have kept in contact about things to make sure nothing was exactly the same so we could each keep uniqueness within our wedding. We’ll, today i was shocked to see that everything was identical to what I have planned!! Down to the arbor with fake trees behind it to make a small little forest and almost the exact same centerpieces. I’m a little hurt and disappointed in this but obviously it’s done and over with. FI thinks we should sy something but I dont see the point thoughts??
Post # 2
KateriPetrie: She already knows. What’s to be gained by bringing it up? Take the high road. Say nothing now, and share nothing in the future.
Post # 3
Wow, I would be so pissed. Now it will look like you copied her. My sister and her sil were pregnant at the same time. My sister had her daughter’s name picked out right from the beginning. The sil never even indicated she liked it.
Of course, sil gave birth first and used the name but with a completely different spelling. A few days later my niece was born and my sister went through with her original plan for the name but it left her with such a bitter taste in her mouth for the sil being dirty like that.
I agree it won’t do you any good to say anything now. Hopefully, you will have time to change some things though. ((hugs))
Post # 4
A lot of Bees will likely say you shouldn’t care, it’s one day, move on, etc. But my feelings would be hurt too. You’re not alone!