ttc before anything happens?

posted 3 years ago in TTC
  • poll: should i conceive before inlaw might pass away?
    should i ask my husband if we should ttc? : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    1386 posts
    Bumble bee

    Seeing as you only have one poll option, I think you want us to tell you what you want to hear.  No one can tell you when to have children.

    Post # 4
    7281 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

    I would not let the health status of a family member affect my decision on whether or not I am ready to take on the responsibility of providing for the full needs of another human life.

    Post # 5
    1582 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @fiftyshadesofbride:  I think you should choose to ttc when it makes sense for you and your husband, and not take into account any external factors. If you aren’t ready for a child, bringing one into the world just so his father can meet him is not necessarily a good reason. I understand the intentions and the sentiment, and why you would want to do that, but you need to look at you and your husband’s situation as a whole right now: financially, emotionally, mentally, physically, and ask yourself if a child truly fits into your life at this time. If the answer is yes, then go for it, but if not, then I would advise you to wait and not plan this around your husband’s father.

    Post # 6
    500 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    @fiftyshadesofbride:  I have to agree with the other ladies. I don’t think I would want to take on the stress of TTC if I wasn’t 100% on board with it. I get why you guys would consider this, but remember, even if you start TTC right now, it doesn’t mean you’ll get pregnant right away. So, in my opinion, it would bring on too much stress for you two and maybe you should wait until you’re totally sure that you are ready and able to take on TTC.

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