TTC & Planning a wedding

posted 2 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Have you talked to the doctor about why it’s taken so long to get pregnant?  If you’re going to have to have any sort of “intervention” (there must be a better way to phrase that) to get pregnant, you may as well get married first, and then deal with that…

 

Why are you waiting so long to get married?  

Post # 3
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3538 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I purposey waited to start TTC after the wedding, but if you think you could book your venue/vendors later than normal, then do that.  Mostly likely you will have a good 4-5 months before you really start showing a baby bump, so if you plan your wedding 5 months from now, and find a dress that’s a little bit more “forgiving” in the midsection (Like a empire waist, or even a flowy A-line dress) you can pull it off.   I am currently TTC and my BFFs wedding is in March and I’m the MOH.  We are picking a dress that can accomodate the extra “bloat” I’ll probably have if I do end up pregnant between now and her wedding. 

Post # 4
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904 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 1975

heatherl86:  Same boat! As we are having issues becoming pregnant as well. We knew this going into TTC that we would have difficulty. We’re not giving up a possible few montha of conceiving for a 1 day party. We won’t TTC the month that could put us near my (possible) 9th month of pregnancy (you know, don’t want to be near labor date so close to the wedding). And I figure after so much time trying, I’ll be lucky and blessed to have a child, whatever time that may happen. I look at it as: I’d rather be pregnant at my wedding, being blessed with the opportunity, than to go throughout life without having the opportunity. Time waits for no one. All the best for you OP!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I started trying three months before my wedding and was 16 weeks pregnant at my wedding. It was doable! My dress fit fine. The only thing that was tight on the dress was the bust.

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