TTC realizations…I'm just all in my feelings today.

posted 4 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
Hostess
11710 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Peffy:  I think you have come to a great realization.  You have a wonderful life, a wonderful DH, be happy with what you have now and focus on the positve in your life.  It sucks when people around you are getting what you want and you aren’t but it sounds like you’re finding a way to take the higher ground 🙂

Post # 5
Member
12262 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I agree–life is really a bitch sometimes! Especially when there are women trying to become amazing Mommies who can’t get pregnant, and people who don’t want kids who seem to get knocked up if they LOOK at a pair of men’s pants!

But I’m glad you’ve managed to find some inner peace about it!

(And I hope you get your BFP soon!)

Post # 6
Member
405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

This is a great realization. And you’re right- the grass is always greener! For example I am sure that your friend who is pregnant but going through a divorce just wishes she could be in a happy relationship. And it sounds like you have a great DH! I guess we all are going through different struggles at different times. Sticky baby dust to you and keep up the positivity!

Post # 7
Hostess
8120 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I hope that you keep this thinking up! :)Iit’s a great way to live. Enjoy each day and your life as it stands! FX you get your BFP soon!

Post # 9
Member
3081 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

That’s a great realization. And I love that you are so appreciative of what you have. Enjoy, and fingers crossed you get your positive soon!

Post # 10
Member
524 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

@Peffy:  I’m glad you had such a positive realization, and so early on! Many people would have allowed those emotions to turn them bitter and maybe even ruin those friendships.  Always keep that realization in your heart and if you haven’t already, maybe share it with DH. I’m sure he’d love to hear that you’re so happy with him and your life together!

Post # 11
Member
1534 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Peffy:  I try to remember this all the time – but I still get twinges of jealousy and disappointment when I find out about other people’s pregnancies.  Just a twinge, not a complete breakdown everytime. 

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