Post # 1
I am currently on CD5 of my 14th cycle of TTC. I became pregnant in my 10th cycle, but i nor my body appaeently knew as i had a regular period and temp drop. I found out as i was miscarrying. It was devastating for me to find out i was pregnant after so long as i was miscarrying.
. My friend, A and her husband, J have 3 kids, all born in december, agea 4, 3, and 1. They announced last week that they are pregnant with #4. I am so crushed. I just knew and felt she would be pregnant. Back in AAugust she told me that they couldn’t afford her BC, so apparently they couldn’t afford condoms either, but can afford another child.
I feel angry but also feel sorry for her as her and her husband have been having serious problems in their marriage, with monthly threats from him with divorce.
This was just a vent and a way for me to get my feelings out, but if anyone else has any TTC vents, vent away.
Post # 3
@lindsayandchris09: Oh hun! I hear ya! It really is the worst feeling! Maybe she feels that this baby will be the glue and solve all to their marriage issues. Im waiting for my cycle to start back since my MC 3weeks ago. And there is seriously like 10 people around me pregnant/had babies. It hurts soo much, but our time will come! (i know yuour probably sick of hearing that). Sending baby dust your way!
Post # 4
I’m sorry you’re going through this:( I can’t wait to have a baby but we’re not even TTC for another 1.5 years, so it’s been rough when literally everyone I know is pregnant and the majority were accidents. To me it just seems like the ones who aren’t trying always have it easier than the ones who are. Hopefully it won’t be much longer for you though!
Post # 5
Ugh I’m sorry. It’s so hard to hear about all of that. Geez I don’t get how your friend’s mind works! Maybe she thinks babies will save their marriage? I’d be glad that my husband and I were stable. I know it will happen for you soon!!