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Turning up the honeymoon heat...

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    coffeekitty    November 2010  

    My man and I live together pretty much just like a married couple...and like a lot of you all, I'm sure.

    This poses a tiny problem...how to make the honeymoon sexy and exciting when your sex life has already had time to become predictable.

    Any ideas for spicing it up to make the honeymoon a little hotter?

    Thanks in advance!Embarassed

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    I bought a new piece of lingerie for every night. It wasn't too expensive b/c I went to TJ Max, Ross, etc, they have some cute stuff!

     
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    hilsy85    September 2010  

    Well, I'm not sure if I would say our honeymoon lovin' was hotter than usual, but I will say that the hotels we stayed at did their best to help us out, lol...rose petals almost every night, free champagne, bubble baths set up for us, etc. So that helped create a nice mood for sure! I also think that just being in a new place make it more exciting...and some nice new lingerie never hurts :)

     
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    AnnieAAA    October 25, 2009   Dallas, TX

    Like artbee, I also bought new lingerie for every night. And on our wedding night I had a little "naughty bride" outfit.

    I don't wear lingerie too often so he was excited about each new outfit!

    Also, you can bring things to set the mood. We had a private pool so I got huge sex pool dice and we played several games. And I brought a bunch of candles in my bag to help make our room romantic and cozy :)  

     
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    coffeekitty    November 2010  

    Those that did lingerie, what type did you get, if that's not to personal. I am interested in trying something super sexy, but it will be a big surprise to him...i wear a lot of little nightgowns, but never tried anything more daring...

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    I got a variety. Some were more like little nightgowns, some were lacy, some were silk. I liked it b/c some nights we had a big dinner or I wasn't feeling well (I get migraines) so I could put on something more comfy and not as tight, but still look cute.

    Also, like hilsy85 said, just having things different is exciting in itself. If you're a night or morning person usually, suggest going back to the room in the middle of the day.

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    I also got different lingerie for each night.  Like artbee, I got a variety.  Some lace, some silk, some tight, some flowy, some bra and panty sets - all sorts of different things (and colors).  DH really enjoyed seeing so many new outfits each day (especially because I don't wear lingerie at home that often).

    We also lived together before the wedding and honeymoon but, despite that, DH and I found that we seemed to be a bit more spontaneous on the honeymoon - regardless of what our sex life at home was like.  The atmosphere just kind of lends itself to letting loose a bit more!

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    I, too, got lingerie and surprised him. (Hardly wear it at home)

    But even more than that, we just had the most romantic time just because we were in paradise. Sitting on the balcony looking out at the Caribbean Sea put BOTH of us in the mood at any moment. :)  It was so relaxing and fun that it just felt different. Totally different than living at home in Pennsylvania dealing with the daily grind. We always have more romance and fun when there is less stress and how can a Caribbean honeymoon be stressful???  I'm sure you'll have a blast!

     
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    KES    October 2, 2010   Texas

    My girlfriends threw me a lingerie shower and as I opened each 'outfit' they had to think of a name for it. Most of the names were a little racey. Once everything was named they made a menu for my husband so each night he got to choose based on the names they came up with.

     
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    coffeekitty    November 2010  

    @KES: that is so adorable! what a cute idea.

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    @KES: That is such a cute thing your friends did for you! And I'm sure your husband loved it!

     
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    lefeymw    April 16, 2011   CT

    Ooh! I hadnt thought of our HM really yet, but I like the lingerie idea so thanks ladies.  Although we will be gone 2 weeks so I dont know if I want to spend the $ or the space on one for every night, but definitely several.

    Do you know those old fortune teller things people made out of paper in grade school? You could make one of those and put fun sexual things to do inside the flaps. Like kiss a spot, remove  a piece of clothing, massage with oil... whatever.

    Turning up the honeymoon heat... :  wedding Il Fullxfull.24475960.preview.jpg

     
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    coffeekitty    November 2010  

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    MissBoston    June 2011  

    WOW I too hadn't thought this far ahead yet but these are great ideas! My FI also *loves* lingerie and I almost never wear it at home - this idea has his name alll over it. :)

     
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    coffeekitty    November 2010  

    I got some thigh high stockings because I read somewhere that it's one of the sexiest items of clothing to "leave on"

     
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    chocolatemalt    July 25, 2010   Austin, TX

    Get a brazilian bikini wax? I know it's a little bit cliche, but it's pretty exciting and new, if you've never done it before. And again, sticking with being cliche: guys do love it.  But being on vacation, alone together in a beautiful place helps too!

     
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    Miss_JD    May 21, 2011   New York

    I love this thread! I tend to do a lot of lingerie and brazillians so I am definitely gonna have to take it to the next level. Any every get vajazzled??

     
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    MrsSl82be    October 24, 2009  

    Honestly, just being on our honeymoon was all we needed.  I had some cute lingerie but only used it I think once...

     
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    Cberry687    November 27, 2010  

    well we decided to abstain until the wedding to try to get some "spice" back into it. Well I should say I decided but he went along with it. :) 

     
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    Cberry687    November 27, 2010  

    We have been together for 5 years and 2 months and have lived together since March 2008 so sex is pretty predictable. So we decided to abstain until the wedding to try to get some "spice" back into it. Well I should say I decided but he went along with it. :) 

     
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    Adriana.Niva    May 27, 2011   Chicago, IL/St. Louis, MO.

    We were considering just writing down some things we've always been too scared to try and picking them out of a hat...  After um... a lot of champagne

     

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