Tux help

posted 3 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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4441 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@Kng2178:  Well first off why do the groomsmen believe your FI is paying for the tuxes?

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

This is your FI’s responsibility.

If he hasn’t said anything to lead them to believe that you are paying for their tux rental, he has nothing to worry about. He can just email or text them all at the same time and let them know that they need to make arrangements to get fitted for their tuxes ( giving them the style information they require) and pay their deposit. “The rental place will let you know when your final payment is due.”

Post # 6
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42522 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Kng2178:  We all are scared at sometime in our life. That doesn`t mean he gets to opt out of dealing with it. He made the mistake of nodding instead of speaking up when the subject was discussed.

He can tell them that he needs to clear up a misunderstanding, that you are not paying for their tux rental, just as you are not paying for the bridesmaids`dresses.

If your wedding date is accurate on your profile, there is lots of time before your wedding, but the sooner he does this the better. It will give them time to adjust their expectations and to budget for tux rental which is actually very reasonable compared to the money the bridal party spends.

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