Flight Sale Until Midnight Tonight - Lufthansa
more by slicey19
Dresses from Target
We have 3 best men!
more in Grooms/men
Matchy
up and down... anybody else do this?
more in Boards
Zip Code or No Zip Code??

Tuxedo and Suits together...not matching?

posted 3 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: Groom in tux while groomsmen wear black suits?
    yes, do this it will look fine, I even have proof which I included in the comments! : (1 votes)
    8 %
    sounds good to me but I have never seen it in real life. : (4 votes)
    33 %
    only if all of the groomsmen are wearing the exact same suit. : (4 votes)
    33 %
    no, do not do this because it will look terrible in photos! : (3 votes)
    25 %
    other (please include comment) : (0 votes)
  •  
    1.
    Member Icon
    Member
    3,106 posts
    Sugar bee
    slicey19      

    I need some hive opinions, here'S the situation:
    My FI is set on wearing (and owning) a tuxedo but neither of us find the need to force the groosmen to buy tuxedos. He hates the idea of renting clothes (and shoes) and is a bit uncomfortable asking his friends to do this which is partly a cultural thing (he's from Europe and renting tuxes is not the norm). This lead us to consider asking the groomsmen to wear a black suit they already own however, this presents 3 problems. 1) I'm pretty sure they do not all own a black suit and if they would buy it sprecial for the wedding it is cheaper to just rent the tuxes. 2) I have never seen anyone pair a tux with suits, how will this look in photos? please direct me towards any you may have seen. 3) The black suits would not match with potential variations in color, style , # of buttons, etc.

    Additionally, the girls will wear navy blue dresses and the plan is for the guys to wear navy ties if this helps with the mental picture. There is a strong possibility there will be 6 guys and 4 girls (because I don't want to invite others for the sake of balance).

    Thanks in advance for your opinions!

     
    2.
    Member
    418 posts
    Helper bee
    kdlowery    6/5/2010   Joplin

    Hmmm... this is difficult... I personally dont wear navy with black.. but that may just be me, so I dont know how that looks. As for the suits/tux.  I think you could get away with just renting jackets for the guys.  Most black suit pants, if they are the same material, will look pretty similar as long as they are not faded.  You may want to collect them all and see.  They just rent jackets so they will match up top.  I dont think people will he analyzing them.  You can also just ask the GM what they would rather do.  If asked they may not mind renting....

     
    3.
    Member
    98 posts
    Worker bee
    Future Puida    May 30, 2009   Connecticut

    We are doing the same thing you questioned for our May wedding...  My FI and my son (who is walking me down the aisle) are renting black tuxes with champange "insides" ie vest, tie, etc.. and our 5 groomsmen will be wearing black suits that they own and renting the "insides" in a royal blue pattern.  When we went to the tailor shop we asked if this would work and the guy working there said he didnt see any "issues" with it as long as we dont want the 100% uniformed look, which we are okay without having.  I mean the worst case would be that one groomsmen as 3 buttons and the other 2.. but for us thats a simple feature we can look over in order to save our bridal party a few hundred dollars.

    One thing though.. you did say navy was the contrast color.  I do remember him saying that navy next to the black suits may make the ties, etc look worn or visa versa depending on which in more vibrant.

    HTH....

    Attachments

    1. Tuxedo and Suits together...not matching? :  wedding suit tuxedo not matching black navy Img vw9768_davids_bridal_wedding_dress_pri.jpg (34.6 KB, 13 downloads) 1 year old
    2. Tuxedo and Suits together...not matching? :  wedding suit tuxedo not matching black navy Img 121901_db.jpg (11 KB, 9 downloads) 1 year old
     
    4.
    Member Icon
    Member
    3,106 posts
    Sugar bee
    slicey19      

    Thanks so much for the feedback Future Puida, it sounds like you did some investigation. Best wishes on your upcoming nuptuials! I would love to see a photo of them all together after the big day if you don't mind sharing. Thanks for the tip about the color contrast, I think we may have to check the ties against the suits before figuring this out. We bought a bunch of navy silk ties in advance of any decisions because we found a good sale but I guess it depends how they look with the suits.

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    MissBoPeep 94
    ndreighton 77
    hisgoosiegirl 56
    beargoose 55
    Mrs.KMM 46
    akp0702 42
    BetterSherm 42
    MrsBlueSeptember 41
    MrsPom 37
    Beckster329 37

    Grooms/men

    User Posts Today
    akp0702 5
    Roe 3
    Sunfire 3
    julies1949 2
    Mrs.KMM 2
    jouissance 2
    GroovyHippieChick 2
    MsMindle 2
    sara_tiara 1
    Fall_In_Love22 1
    More