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'Twas the Night Before Christmas... and I got engaged!!!!

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    Miss Fish    December 31, 2011   Youngstown, OH

    Umm, what?!?! I've been posting around here lately even though I wasn't anticipating a proposal for another 6-months to a year, but he popped the question TONIGHT! I'm a communication major who spent 4 years on Speech and Debate; my SO (FH!! AHH!) jokes that it was the first time since we've been dating that I was completely at a loss for words.

    For the last 3 years, we've been going through the same Christmas Eve routine; we have a sit-down dinner at my Grandma's with about 8 people, and then head over to his Uncle's house for a HUGE (we're talking 60+ people) Christmas party. This party has been going on for the past 47 years; it's a huge tradition. Since I come from a really small (and not necessarily close) family, I always rave about how much I love the party and how happy and spirited everyone always is. They hire a Santa to come in, and every kid (which is defined as everyone who's not married with kids of their own) sits on Santa's lap and recieves a gift. This year, my FH was playing "Elf" and handing the presents to Santa. They went through the whole list of names, and I was called last. Santa said, "I've got a VERY special gift for you this year!"

    My FH got up from his seat, took my hands, stood me up, and got down on one knee. He said something along the lines of, "I haven't exactly been honest with you about the time frame... but you're the most important person in the entire world to me and I would be honored if you would marry me."

    I literally stood there for at least 30 seconds. I had NO. IDEA. this was happening so soon! Finally someone said, "You know you have to answer him, right?!" So I nodded and 62 members of my brand new family burst into applause for us!! At least 4 people caught it on tape, I'll post the video of me acting like an idiot as soon as I get it!

    And just one other thing that makes him perfect- while I was away at school, he invited my grandma and both of my parents out to lunch. He told them how much he loved me and how he would always treat me right, and it would mean the world to him to have ALL of their blessings. Again, NO ONE gave me the slightest inkling that I was getting engaged so soon!

    So here's the ring 'Twas the Night Before Christmas... and I got engaged!!!! :  wedding christmas proposal RING 003

    'Twas the Night Before Christmas... and I got engaged!!!! :  wedding christmas proposal RING 009

     

    Sorry they're so big, and I promise to post better pics of it when I get a chance!

     

    Oh, and funny story about the ring- I thought about posting about it earlier this week, but I never had time. He took me out "ring browsing" on Tuesday and Wednesday to "get a feel for what I like." I fell in love with 2 rings for completely different reasons. YESTERDAY, I took my best friend to the mall to show them to her. Little did I know, she and my other BFF had gone with my FH over a month ago to help him find the perfect engagement ring, and HE PICKED ONE OF MY TWO FAVORITES! She didn't even bat an eye when I showed it to her.

    Officially the best Christmas ever!!!!!

     
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    sarahsunshine    November 27, 2010   Houston, TX

    What a great story and gorgeous ring! Congratulations and Merry Christmas!!

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    YYYYYAAAAYYYYY! Congrats!  I love that story, one of the best.  Beautiful ring.  Look forward to see your plans in the planning boards.

     
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    PurpleUnicorn    April 19, 2011  

    awesome story! congratulations!!!!

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    Congratulations!  Happy planning :)

     
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    STBSchmidt    October 15, 2011   Montana

    Congrats!  What a great story!

     
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    MsFoxxy    October 6, 2012   DW in St. Thomas USVI/ AHR in Atlanta, GA

    OMG.. what an awesome proposal!  And your ring is so pretty.. Congratulations!!!  :D

     
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    yrret107    November 28, 2009   Seattle, WA; Married in West Chester, PA

    Yay!  Congrats!  Great proposal! Beautiful ring! Can't wait to see the video!

     
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    Vegan    July 6, 2013   maryland

    Congrats and beautiful ring!

     
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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    Congrats!!!!! Beautiful ring!!!

     
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    Ctinaditty    July 20, 2012   Lee's Summit, MO

    Oh, what a beautiful story! Congratulations and Merry Christmas! This day will never be the same! :)

     
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    Prewitt    June 19, 2011   England

    Aww that's awesome, congratlations!! Lovely story. Merry Christmas ;)

     
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    Awww, that is one of the sweetest proposal stories I have ever heard!! And so crazy about the ring! Hoooray for being engaged, congrats!

     
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    Treasure43    September 18, 2010  

    Congratulations!! What a sweet proposal! Love the ring!

     
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    Miss Fish    December 31, 2011   Youngstown, OH

    Thank you everyone! I'm so overwhelmed and excited!!! I honestly had NO IDEA. Here is a picture of my face. Attractive, right?

    'Twas the Night Before Christmas... and I got engaged!!!! :  wedding christmas proposal Proposal

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    Congrats!

     
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    armychica06    December 8, 2012   CT

    congrats!!!

     
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    rachaelrobin    January 16, 2011   Philadelphia

    OMG!! Soo cute! I seriously just teared up a bit! What a wonderful Christmas proposal.

    Congrats and happy planning!!

     
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    maggierose    May 26, 2012  

    So pretty CONGRATS!!!!

     
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    _Krystal_    August 4, 2012   Southern CA

    Aww that is one of the cutest stories ive heard!! Congrats! 

     
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    pacificnwgirl    August 12, 2012   Portland, OR

    Congrats!!!! :D Beautiful ring love!

     
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    CaraMia10    October 10, 2010   Loma Linda, CA

    What a gorgeous!! ring. Congrats! :)

     
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    ADBK2011    October 1, 2011   Atlanta

    Such a sweet story!!

     
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    Tickles    September 2, 2015  

    Ahhh! That is so amazing that he picked one of your favorite rings before you even did. Congratulations, your proposal sounds great, I love that you got in on camera. The ring is so pretty. Merry Christmas! 

     
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    Miss Fish    December 31, 2011   Youngstown, OH

    Thank you, ladies! I'm still kind of in shock... a whole year before I expected it!

     
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    Ms. MoxieMonkey       Los Angeles

    Congrats! What a sweet propsal (and ring!!)

     

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