(Closed) Twice a cheater! Always a cheater?????

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wow, thats quite the dilema! I’m sorry your going through this.

How long were you two together before you got married?

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wait, so this guy threatened her and to commit suicide if she didn’t marry him, and now she is chatting with him about her vacation?  Just clarifying…

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

There is no way this is not MUD. If by some small chance this is real then clearly you know what you should do: leave.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

It doesn’t sound like you like her very much.

Post # 11
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Well did you marry her just because she was a citizen? There seems to be a few red flags as to the rush for a wedding.

Anyways, the phrase I grew up with is: Once a cheater, always a cheater.

It takes a speical couple working together in forgiveness to move past infidelity whether its chatting with someone on a computer or straight up sex with soemone else.

I think you should take a step back and also address all the issues at hand.

Post # 14
Hostess
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

ok. you clearly don’t trust her at all. You’re checking her emails, you’ve put detection stuff on her chats. But yet you refuse to address the issue head on. You’re just baiting her. 

idk. This seems too suspect.

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

why did you marry her without really getting to know her?  how long did you date prior to marrying? 

Post # 16
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Sugar bee

@Eva Peron:  I don’t know what to think. The OP writes like a female so if indeed the writer is a female, there is not immigration benefit from marrying the wife since the Federal Government does not recognize same sex marriage. One can’t get citizenship through his/her spouse through a same sex marriage. 

   To the OP, sorry, your story sounds too convoluted and dramatic for words. This lady is on her third marriage. She has not managed to secure your trust. You are in a different country and you’ve been married less than a year. Without more details from you, I’d say get out while you can. 

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