Post # 1
hi — I am thinking of thank-you note pitfalls I may encounter in a few months. I am planning on writing longer than average thank you notes, including something personal in each. Question: If a couple is invited and just one of them comes to the wedding, who do i address the thank you to? If the card is signed by both, then I know I have to write the note to both, but I can’t say how great it was they both came. What are some things you would write in the note? Any ideas of other nice things to say?
Post # 3
I would think the person who came for coming. Note that I wish the other person could have shared our special day with us! And then thanked them both for the gift and what I was going to do with it!
Post # 4
If they are a couple and only one person comes to the wedding and only one signs the card you still might assume the gift is from both. My FH and I are very often seperated for work and he misses a great deal of events that I am only able to go to. We always talk about gifts on the phone and so the gifts are from the both of us.