Two couples in the same room?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Not at all common in my neck of the woodd… sounds very collegy or “Jersey Shore” to me. Unless the couples are swingers, then it’s more common I suppose! 

Post # 4
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641 posts
Busy bee

It came up recently in Savage Love. Apparantly, the couple had difficulty finding couples that were willing to keep their hands to themselves. Even if it was discussed beforehand, once things got underway, the second couple would be all “haaaaaay!”

Post # 5
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1950 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I did it in college! But I was young and usually drunk.  Usually my roommate was asleep and my boyfriend’s roomate was still awake in his room.  I kinda feel bad about it now.  Oh well!

Post # 6
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5697 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

As in planned sex in the same room or trying to secretly get busy and hoping the other couple is sleeping?

either way im a big fat no on lol

Post # 7
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2125 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

This is a thing I associate with college too. I never did this, but I have heard of others doing this. Mostly, it is something people do because they don’t have a bedroom of their own. Like dorms or a double bed apartment room. Bleh. 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

@Kacey23:  In the swinger thread from yesterday, she said that they only swing with another couple while everyone is in the same room.  Ask her.

Post # 9
cherrypieBee
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2008 - A tiny town just outside of Glacier National Park

It’s happened a few times with us in polyamorous situations and several in more swinger-y type situations, but there was once where it was completely platonic…

We were in a cabin at a national park with a couple who is good friends of ours. In the main cabin, we had our own rooms, but on the last night, we were moved to a smaller, one-room, two-bed cabin as the next set of family guests came in. Everyone was feeling frisky, so we agreed that it was no problem and turned on some music and got down to business in our respective ends of the room. Unfortunately, right at a decisive moment, iTunes decided to switch “The Album Leaf” to Lewis Black’s “White Album” (I guess our friend just filtered by the word “Album”) and Lewis Black started yelling about Janet Jackson’s wardrobe malfunction and Justin Timberlake at the Superbowl. Kinda… a mood killer.

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Did this in college because we didn’t really have “bedrooms”….would def be open to it if the right opportunity came along though!!! Planned or unplanned wouldn’t matter!

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