Post # 1
I wanted to do a combined my / his side shower, but alas, it was not to be, and I’m now having two showers. Do I invite all my bridesmaids to both showers? Having been a bridesmaid, I can see how this might be annoying, but then again I don’t want to offend anyone. What is the etiquette on this?
Post # 3
I am like you in that I’ll most likely be having multiple showers. I think I’ll just invite them to each shower, and let them know that I in no way expect them to be at both, but I want to make it easier for them to attend whichever fits their schedule best. As long as you make it clear that they don’t have to attend both (or even that they should feel like they need to attend both), inviting them to both seems to be the nicest option, IMO.
Post # 4
I agree with NDBee. They’re all invited, but BY NO MEANS to I expect them to be at all of them! I’ll also try to make sure that they know I really don’t expect them to be there and that I’m not just saying it to be nice. 🙂