Weddingbee boards

A. My proposal came from a super-romantic boy, but I kinda ruined it, hah- it was in the perfect spot, a really creepy, old, well-known cemetary that is supposedly haunted, but I was so busy taking photos that when he grabbed my hand to turn me around, I was like dude hold on, taking photos, LOL! He grabbed me again, rolled his eyes, and got down on one knee and said hey butthole, will you marry me? We giggled plenty over it He said it wasn't exactly what he wanted it to be, but since we were out of town, it was harder for him to plan it! But I thought it was great anyway <3

B. 90% of my BF's are men! One of them is such a sweetheart, and he listens to everything I say and responds accordingly, and the other is planning his own wedding right now, so they have been dears about listening to me! When I try on dresses, the only person I want to be there is my FI- the dress is to please me and him, and it is completely non-traditional punk- I love my Mum but she is far too critical to have around for that moment, and my sister can't make it because she lives a couple of states away and works full time. I might have one of my few close female friends come, but I dunno. FI listens to everything I say, thank goodness, about the wedding!

A - Mine was in the middle of the not romantic/romantic spectrum. But I loved it so I guess that is what matters. I don't remember what he said though, I am such a bad fiance haha and he is more likely to remember what was said but I said yes which was the most important part.  Oh and it was at a Japanese steakhouse and the food and sushi was super yummy so that was good too!

B- I don't really have many friends who are girls to talk about it with either. My little sister is 10 and my little girl cousin is 6 so although they are super stoked for the wedding I can't really bounce ideas off of them unless I want a Barbie Princess/Hannah Montana debacle! My best friend since kindergarten (and MOH)and I talk about it sometimes, but mainly in the broader sense, since it is a year away. But sadly she is moving 5 hours away to go to school next month so that will make it harder. Plus when we talk now, we both have stuff going on that makes me feel a little silly if I was going to try to interject something like "Soooo, what do you think about invitations" haha. My Grandmother, mom and aunt listen to me sometimes but I think they kind of brush stuff off like "Yeah of course a 20 year old would want a photobooth" no matter how hard I try to tell them that older brides have them too! Oh and my fiance is in Afghanistan so he has more important things to worry about (hard to imagine but true) and when we usually only get 30 minutes to talk wedding stuff doesn't always worm it's way in there and I am just happy to talk to him. Plus the other day I asked him what he thought about mango-ish, pink-ish, and yellow-ish as our colors and he just went "Colors for what? I thought you were supposed to wear a white dress?" haha. So yeah, I am running pretty low on people to talk wedding stuff with, but maybe when I start classes next month I will meet some other girls who are getting married. Plus I always have WeddingBee .

So hugs to all my fellow Bees for being there!