Two wedding bride.. I need some help!

posted 3 years ago in Elopement
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  • Post # 2
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!

    Why do you have to get married May 27th? Why do you need a wedding anniversary in the fall?

    Post # 3
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    357 posts
    Helper bee

    sgomez12:  Well, once you’re married, that date will ALWAYS be your wedding date, believe it or not. If you’re doing a ceremony/wedding two years down the road, you might as well call it a vow renewal.

    But if you’re asking if it is ok to call it a “wedding” when it’s two year away? Let’s just say that you might hear other people like your family or relatives calling you “gift grabby” or having a “pretty princess day” and they might feel they are getting duped becuase technically, you are married already.

    So my advice is to tread carefully among people you are inviting and possibly call it a vow renewal if you want to avoid backlash or people talking behind your back.

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    I’m confused. If you’re getting married on May 27th, your wedding anniversary is May 27th.

    Post # 5
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    Is there a rush to get married?  Why not wait.  Having a second wedding ceremony is generally not accepted.  Deciding between which date would be your anniversary is silly, the date would be when you became legally married.

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