(Closed) Tx/Consderations/Widow

posted 10 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

You know, its just really hard to tell.  He might be very happy to be included, or it might be kind of painful.  I think that’s why you just have to ask, and be sensitive. 

My FI’s dad passed away just before he asked me to marry him.  There are discussions fairly often on this website about honoring or memorializing family members who have passed away, and we had looked through most of it.  We thought that maybe it would be nice to do a little something, and to mention his father’s name in the program – but his mom actually wants nothing.  Nothing at all.  She says that it will be sad enough for her, that FI’s dad is not around for our wedding, and she doesn’t need any extra reminders of that.  But really, who could have predicted that?  I’m really glad that we asked, instead of just going ahead with it.

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