- 3 years ago
- Wedding: December 2014
I’ll start with saying that I pretty much NEVER complain about FI publically. But he has been dragging this on for MONTHS now and the wedding is in December I am just getting stressed out.
He is only in charge of one thing for the wedding. ONE THING. The clothes for him and his groomsmen (his dad and brother).
He says he will never in his life wear a tux, which I am okay with. We are not having a black tie wedding. But he also refuses to buy a suit because its a “waste of money” because he thinks he will never wear it again. So I said, okay, then just rent a suit (plus, I have a FREE RENTAL COUPON from Men’s Warehouse!) and he is absolutely ADAMENT that he will not wear a rented suit. He is a huge germ-a-phobe and wont wear anything another person has ever even just tried on.
So we’ve been trying to find seperates that will look okay to make an outfit, but he is SO whiney and “nothing looks okay.” So I’m trying to find outfits for them to wear, but he doesn’t need me to “act like his mom and pick out his clothes.” But um, apparently I do because he WON’T DO IT.
Also, he’s been on a rant now that he’s not going to tell grown men (his dad and brother) how to dress themselves, they’re not babies, and that they can wear whatever they want because it doesnt matter anyways because no one every looks at wedding pictures after the wedding is over. But I really want nice pictures 🙁 I’m okay if they don’t match, as long as they coordinate, but he doesn’t even want to do that. He wants to let them wear whatever. But this is a major no-no because his brother dresses very thug-ish with low, baggy pants, oversized polo shirts, and timberland shoes. DEFINITELY not what I invisioned my bridal party to look like.
He knows that I’ve had a picture of a wedding in my head for years, and he has literally said he DOESN’T CARE about the wedding details whatsoever, so why can’t he and his groomsmen just wear a nice coordinating outfit to make me happy? 🙁 I hope that doesn’t sound selfish, but if it doesn’t matter to him, but it does to me… why is he so adament on being difficult 🙁
Ugh. Sorry, rant over.