- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
Well Bees I’ve been putting this vent off, putting a smile on face and just biting my tongue but now I NEED to vent.
So pretty much this wedding has been up to me. My Maid/Matron of Honor, Mom and Mom in law have helped for the most part but I really feel like people aren’t taking things as seriously as me (which is probably because I’m the bride but still it drives me crazy).
Anyway, my post is really about my Bridesmaids. I have not asked my bridesmaids to do ANYTHING during this whole process except for them to get their dress (which that was a problem in itself). Started with one Bridesmaid being pissy during the time we tried to find dresses (because supposively me and my matron of honor weren’t including her in things even though she was at the dress shop and I asked her to try on dresses?). But then EVERYONE waited until the very last minute to get them ordered, then also waited until the very last minute to pay them off and it drove me CRAZY. Also when I nicely reminded them of the date they needed paid off by (just so they didn’t get a late charge) I heard that the one bridesmaid said behind my back “i’m an adult I don’t need a reminder”. REALLY???!
So next week my makeup artist wants to do a trial run on all the girls. My mom has offered to pay for whoever wants their makeup done, and my makeup artist (who is my aunt) is coming here (Pennsylvania) from New York. I’ve sent a message to the girls a while ago with the date and time and asked who was coming, with no response. I asked again today because I NEED to know. My Matron of Honor (who has helped me with MANY things, god bless her) of course will be there. My other responses consisted of “prob” and “i will come but I don’t know if I’ll get my make up done by her” and the other “idk I might work”. once again, REALLY??!! Like I’ve said, I have not asked any of these girls for ANYTHING and the one thing that i’d like is for us all to get together to get our make up done THAT MY MOTHER IS PAYING FOR!! I just don’t know what to do, but I’m about to go all bridezilla on these girls.
Some days I wish I just had my Matron of Honor and my FH’s sister in the wedding and that’s it. (FH’s sister lives in Montana so it’s very understandable that she can’t really help even though I know she’d love to help).
Any other bees having any bridesmaid problems??