- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2015
Fiance still lives with his mom and she is a very difficult woman to begin with and shit just hit the fan. FI’s sister moved in with them about 3 months ago and it has been rough to say the least. She is a very selfish person and doesn’t think about the people around her. When she moved in, the agreement was that she wouldn’t have to pay rent and could eat the food in the house and all she had to was pay their cellphone bill (all three are on the same plan) Well she totally took advantage of all this, she never helped clean house, would eat all day and wouldn’t save any for Fiance or their mom, and especially not me (I stay there a few nights a week) like she stole my cheesecake, which I think is really childish for a 28 year old, its not a huge deal but pile it on top of all the other shit and it just ticked me off. She also would leave her clothes in the bathroom and when she did pick them up and wash them she would leave them in the washer for days and then get mad when someone took her clothes out of it! And she was just rude while there, wouldn’t talk to anyone unless it was about her, she didn’t even say happy birthday to Fiance, like is it that hard to stick your head out the room and say happy birthday? And to make matters worse she only paid half of one month for the phone bill. Then last Saturday FI’s brother tells their mom sister is thinking about moving out, well mom is actually kind of relieved but curious how she can afford to move out if she can’t even handle a phone bill and has to borrow money to pay for her car tags. Well sister comes home and mom decides to wait until the weekend is over to talk to her about so they could be alone. Then Monday rolls around and mom gets home to see that most of sisters stuff is moved out of the house. She left a ton of trash, stains on the carpet and her room half painted this ugly dark purple color. She leaves a note saying she will get the rest of her stuff the next day and will no longer pay the phone bill (when did she ever?) How do you do that to your own mother???? Well now Future Mother-In-Law is upset (rightfully) but is totally taking it out on Fiance and I. Fiance had a few days off of work and decided to clean out the garage for her and she barely said thank you. Also he works on call so he needs a working phone (his phone sucks), so they decided to get him a new phone and a cheaper plan. They were supposed to do it today but she didn’t feel like it! No other reason. And then was like screaming at me when I was like “O you aren’t going today? When are you going to go?” In a very casual way just making conversation. And other things, she has just been very snippy and rude. I get she is hurt but why does she have to be so rude to us, we’re trying to help her with all this and I’ve already had some problems with her so its hard to be sympathetic at this point. Ugh… I don’t even want to go over there at this point, I wish Fiance and I could afford to move out now.
Vent over… thanks for listening bees!