Post # 1
So anyways…. Here goes!!
I asked my good friend to be my Maid/Matron of Honor. Always been there for me, We text and talk all the time. I thought she would be perfect. She keeps going MIA (missing in action)
it’s been almost a month, I send her texts saying we need to talk, I finally heard from her last week. I was thinking YAY! finally!! She finally texted me last wednesday. said thursday she can talk, I got nothing back since
I just thought she would step up more than she is. Im also doing a destination wedding. So I need to know my Maid/Matron of Honor will show up and not back out last minute
That is all for my small rant.
Post # 3
@BrideNicole13: …maybe your friend’s got some problem you don’t know about? It seems pretty strange that you’d be so close and then *poof* she’s gone….any way you could show up at her house with a bottle of wine and check in to see if she’s ok?
Post # 4
@Nona99: True, I suppose that could be it. I could show up at her house. But because of where she works. her hours change all the time
Post # 5
When you text her are you asking her about how she is, what she’s up to, etc? Or are you just focused on what you need her to help with/talking about your wedding?
She might be really busy with other things and think that all you want to talk about is your wedding and that you might be asking her for help that she just can’t provide right now.
Maybe try and reach out to her as a friend (rather than as a bride/MOH relationship) and see how things are going in her life.
Post # 6
@KatNYC2011: No, not at all
I do send msgs like hey! how are you? etc
I will give your advice a shot 🙂 and try to stick with that. and have more patience with her
I am just terrified she will flake out last minute. and its not like im getting married locally either,