(Closed) Ugh – I'm losing my mind…

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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4513 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@coolbride125:  Don’t worry!

marriage license: Do you have to get it more than 2 weeks before the wedding? We got ours just a couple days before. It took maybe 30 minutes. We both waited in line first thing in the a.m., signed the thing, and went to work. Research what the requirements are in your area, but I don’t think you need a lot of time…

paying: well, I don’t know what to tell you there except that there’s still time to cut back on stuff. Don’t go into debt over the wedding. It’s not worth it. 

losing 11 pounds: forget about it and accept yourself as you are right now — which is how your FI loves you, right?

FI’s travels: bummer. 🙁 But the time will fly. You’ll get him for 10 days now, and then January will go really quickly.  

Just take a deep breath and think about what’s important: marrying your FI. Not the dress, not the decorations, not anything. Just getting married. 

Post # 4
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3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

You’ve got to let it all go. I know your mind is going a million miles per hour in ten different directions but you have to find a way to relax. Best thing I ever did, about a month before the wedding I just stopped. I stopped thinking about it and worrying about all the details. Every now and then I would get the urge to craft or make something so I would but I only did it when I was in the mood for it.

Find something to do that will help take your mind off of the wedding. Read a book, bake, do a puzzle. Do non wedding related things.

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