(Closed) Ugh more drama

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
5902 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

this is beyond crazy.  i think FI should pull a macaulay culkin on his parents.

Post # 4
Member
624 posts
Busy bee

>>then she starts in and says I know your not happy, we need to make you realize your not happy, this isn’t right for you, and I know you just can’t see it right now! Mind you, she didn’t even ask if I was around before she started in about this, just went off. He laid into her, he said just when he thinks things are moving forward she goes and does this he said he is happier than he ever was and it’s sad his family can’t see this, he told her today was such a great day for him because we went ring shopping and picked our wedding bands, but he can’t even share in that joy with her, and he ended it and said he had to go.<<

Next time as soon as she starts in, he needs to abruptly tell his mother that he cannot have a relationship with her until she stops disaparaging you.  And hang up.  She will bombard every phone line you have but don’t engage.  Let her cool off a bit, couple of days, and then when she calls again, if she starts he needs to repeat that “the two of us will not have a relationship with you for as long as you continue to badmouth ams. This is all on you – if you badmouth ams, I will not have a relationship with you. Let me know when you are ready to be respectful toward her, until then I will not talk or visit with you.”

Post # 5
Member
624 posts
Busy bee

She needs to be taught there are consequences to her actions.  Sure she will blame you but you are already getting blamed as it is so take a stand.

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