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    TPHoliday    May 23, 2010   Seattle, WA

    I can't get into it, but just please if you can, send good thoughts towards Mr. Holiday's way.  He needs them right now.

    Sigh.

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    Oh no TP!  I hope that everything is okay.  You are in my thoughts!

     
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    TheDivineMissE    October 24, 2009   Eugene, OR

    Sending you lots of love and good thoughts! I'm sorry you're having a rough day.

     
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    stephinPA    October 29, 2010   Reading, PA

    I hope things are okay.  Good thoughts and vibes coming your way!

     
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    2PeasinaPod       Philadelphia

    Sorry to hear things aren't going great for you guys today. Sending lots of love and good thoughts your way!

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I hope your day (and his) improves!  Sending you warm wishes :o)

     
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    hcritton    09/06/09   Seattle, WA

    Sorry TP you are having a rough day. Hope things get better soon for you and the Mr.

     
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    sombra    September 10, 2011  

    Sending warm wishes full of gingerbread and peppermint for the holiday spirit :)

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    ((HUGS)) you aren't the only one... today's been a sucky day here as well

     
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    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    Big hugs. I'm having a rotten day too. It can only get better though right? 

     
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    TPHoliday    May 23, 2010   Seattle, WA

    Maybe not... he and "some other individuals" got accused of something at work and is now in meetings about it. He is terrified he is losing his job. I can't even comprehend how he could have done ANYTHING like it so I don't believe it; I'm not nervous but I'm very anxious for him!

    I just want to talk about it and he asked me to not mention it to anyone, even my mom :( I know it's because he is horribly embarassed this would even be happening to him. Bursting at the seams to talk it through though

     
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    Serya    October 7, 2011   Frederick, MD

    (((good thoughts)))

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    Hang in there Mr. TP and Miss TP.  I'm sorry bad stuff is happening and I'm wishing you the best!

     
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    It's been a rough year! I'm sending you good mojo. Pink and blue happy thoughts!

     
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    TPHoliday    May 23, 2010   Seattle, WA

    I CANT Believe it! This is utter crap! They are investigating him being gender biased?!?!?  ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME? He wouldn't stand a day with me if I thought he wasn't anything but polite and respectful of women.  Those little twits make me want to do violent things!

    Thank god he had evaluations stating why he isn't giving them opportunities... its not b/c they look like women (not that I have any idea who they are, but grown up they are NOT) but that they SUCK at their job.  Well he doesn't say that but really if you don't prove your worth why do you think you would/should get the jobs that are important!

    ARGH

    I know this won't end up as bad as he thinks it will but the mama bear in me wants to rip to shreds this chica that are threatening his happiness.  I mean there are NO patterns and he has lots of women working with him that are friends and even coming to the wedding.

    GAH I'm just so infuriated!

     

     
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    alundberg    February 13, 2010  

    TP - that sounds unreasonably unfair for the Mister. Hopefully things get better soon!!!

     
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    vintage2010    April 10, 2010  

    I use to be in HR and had to deal with these type of claims all the time.  It was pretty easy to tell when they were real or false.  But you still had to bring all parties involved and hear each side of the story and then follow-up sessions on the path forward.  I hope it all goes well for him and glad that he has his evluations on hand to help support his side.  Good luck!

     

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