Post # 1
Over thanksgiving my FI and I broke up and I was having a hard time with it. I posted something on fb about a song i had heard… Well one of brandons “friends” started verbally attacking me and it really hurt me. And nothing had been said since that incident. I thought his FI and I were friends, but last night I find out that they had sent out their wedding invites already and we hadnt recieved one. So my FI and I were talking and I thought that we shouldnt invite them if they didnt invite us… But he thinks thatwe should keep them on the list and i dont think we should. what would you guys do in this situation?
Post # 3
@mrpatrick1: does your FI know what the friend did?
Personally, I’d put my foot down and say “no way. they hurt me and I don’t want people like that at our wedding”.
I’ve removed a few people from the list due to things in our lives, and a few were my FI’s friends. In fact, he also removed and blocked them from his FB account after we *ahem* talked.
It doesn’t sound like they are true friends, other wise the guy wouldn’t have attacked you on FB. Or at all, for that matter.
I wouldn’t invite them simply because of the “no invite”, but rather because of prior treatment. Unless you know the type of wedding (huge, lavish party), you really can’t claim it as an excuse. They could claim they’re having a “small intimate affair”.
sorry you’ve gotta deal with this!!!
Post # 4
yeah he saw what the guy had said… but he wants to invite everyone he knows and its driving me crazy. most of our guest list is his people, which im fine with, but why should we invite someone who didnt invite us and who has treated me like crap?
Post # 5
@mrpatrick1: tell him this and then refuse to give. I’m so so sorry you’ve gotta deal with this.